A few years ago, when Lecture Room was popular, Mr. Yi Zhongtian was very popular. He is very good at analyzing China's classic literary works, especially tasting the Three Kingdoms, which has become the talk of many people after dinner.

Mr. Yi Zhongtian is an out-and-out schoolmaster. He is knowledgeable and enjoys the company of books. Many people are wondering what the children educated in Yi Zhongtian will look like. As expected, Yi Zhongtian's daughter, under the influence of her father, has become a super scholar who knows the world well.

Yi Zhongtian once told the story of his daughter. The year of her daughter's birth, Yi Zhongtian had just been admitted to graduate school. At that time, he was separated from his wife and daughter Meanwhile, his wife is taking care of his daughter. When her daughter began to read slowly, he communicated with her children through letters.

In view of the child's poor literacy, his initial letters are very short, sometimes only a short line. With the growth of children, the amount of literacy is increasing, and the number of words he writes to children is increasing and the length is getting longer and longer.

This way of writing letters makes children interested in writing and reading from an early age, and they will constantly want to learn more knowledge. Therefore, the daughter behind her is very serious in reading and writing, so there is no need to worry about Mr. and Mrs. Yi Zhongtian. Sometimes the daughter is too absorbed in reading, and the couple will give the child a proper rest and encourage her to go out to play.

Therefore, if children are interested in learning, they will drive themselves to learn. And this is self-discipline. Why many successful people in today's society can achieve success by self-discipline. The philosopher Kant said: the so-called freedom is not arbitrary, but self-dominated.

Freedom can only be achieved if we set high demands on ourselves, set high standards and put in efforts. In this world, if a person can't even control his own will, it is easy to fall into the whirlpool of depravity. So, how to cultivate children's self-discipline ability, let's learn together today!

1, parents' words and deeds

In life, many parents are talking about cultivating their children's self-discipline ability, but they are not. They obviously have to finish their work at night, but they have to wait until the dead of night to comfort themselves because they have lost a lot of time watching TV and playing mobile phones. Staying up late is not good for their health, so it is natural to put off the work that needs to be done that day until the next day.

And this kind of procrastination and making excuses is easy for children to see. In the eyes of children, parents are the first teachers, and many parents' behavior habits will be imitated by children.

Children who stay in this environment for a long time will gradually get into the habits of their parents and become procrastinating. Therefore, to cultivate children's self-discipline, parents must first do their own work.

For example, parents have work to finish and children have homework to do that day. Parents can make an appointment with their children, choose a time period, and two people can complete the task separately. In the meantime, everyone should concentrate. Under the guidance of parents, children will become very disciplined and never look back.

2. Respect the individualized development of children.

We will find that many people will devote themselves to what they like or are interested in. Similarly, every child has his own personality and interests. As a parent, he should be good at discovering children's preferences, excavating children's characteristics, respecting him and letting children develop in the direction they like.

Don't force children to go their own way. The arranged life is not theirs, so we will naturally ignore it. Therefore, if children want to focus on self-discipline, they must follow their inner thoughts, and it must be something they recognize and love. Only love and self-discipline can make things happen.

3. Make reasonable family rules.

In a well-behaved family, family members will be more organized and self-disciplined. And many undisciplined families, letting themselves grow freely, will easily get out of control and go to extremes.

Therefore, in the family, making certain rules is also conducive to the development of children's self-discipline ability, especially for children who want to enter the learning state, which is particularly important.

In life, parents can agree with their children about housework, who will do it, when, how much homework the children have, when to finish it, and so on. And then make a timetable to remind children to complete the task at a specific time. In the long run, children will form a strong sense of time and be more self-disciplined when facing their own affairs.

At the same time, in the process of children's growth, they can also be encouraged to make their own timetable, telling them which tasks must be completed in some time periods and which time belongs to free distribution, which can stimulate their enthusiasm and initiative and let them complete their tasks better.

There is a good saying that only by maintaining self-discipline can we get closer and closer to freedom. Self-discipline makes people grow, which is recognized by all, and how to cultivate self-discipline from an early age must be the best solution. Therefore, every parent should attach importance to this issue and instill the concept of self-discipline from an early age. Only when children are self-disciplined will there be unlimited possibilities in the future.