1, older children are more sensible.

In China's family, older children are more sensible than children. For the understanding of some things, children can't understand what adults mean because they are young, so theoretically, older children need to let go.

2. From a historical perspective

1. When the society has not developed to a certain stage, China Confucianism teaches big brothers and sisters to take care of their younger brothers and sisters, and younger brothers and sisters should respect and obey them.

2. With the development of the times, people no longer ask young children to respect and honor their brothers and sisters, but intensify their demands on older children to give up their brothers and sisters unconditionally, which makes humility mandatory.

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Rightly or wrongly, it is easy for older children to feel that it is unfair to give way to children because of their age. What's more, they think that parents prefer younger ones, which will make older children become withdrawn and insecure. Moreover, it is easy for children to develop an arrogant character, which is not conducive to cultivating the feelings between children.