Especially when children make mistakes, we need to have a heart, wait patiently, send a ray of sunshine to warm them, caress them with a spring breeze, and you will hear the most beautiful voice in the world-the voice of flowers! In the class I teach, there is a student named Ma. He is particularly naughty, making a lot of small moves in class, talking casually, answering casually, going to the fields when he wants to, and not saying hello to the teacher. He always cuts corners in his homework. If you are strict with him, he will knock on the table, throw things, or start to sit quietly with his small arms and confront the teacher. Class makes teachers have a headache, and class also makes teachers uneasy. Going up and down the stairs is either running or jumping, and I have to fight with him every day.
Later, after a period of careful observation and repeated communication with parents. I just know that a few years ago, parents thought their children were too young to care too much. Children's behavior is too casual and particularly difficult to control. I usually like to play games at home, and I have a special preference for guns and cannons. Sometimes I bring my toys to school and take them out to play when the teacher is not looking. In view of this situation, I took a special approach. If he finishes his homework, he can play with toys. He is in charge of the ball in the class, leaving him less homework than other students. Because he likes running errands, he is asked to do things like delivering things and finding people, but the premise of doing these things is to finish his homework carefully. Although I was reluctant at first, I was able to calm down and study slowly under the drive of playing. In addition, I assigned him the task of homework in the class WeChat group, and he accepted it happily and did a good job.
Whenever he does well, I will praise him and encourage him. If he makes a mistake, I will communicate with him patiently and never reprimand him. In this way, the horse has changed. He can concentrate on his studies and finish his homework on time. Although the quality of his homework is not satisfactory, I am very pleased with his change. If you want to do better, you still need to wait slowly.
In fact, it is a process for a child to move from naivety to maturity. We can't look at children from the perspective of an adult, nor can we ask all children to use the same standard. For some children, the process of growing up may take more time. This requires our teachers to slow down the pace of love, use our sincerity, tolerance, patience, expectation, trust and respect to enter the inner world of students, learn to wait, pay in waiting, and certainly gain in waiting. Seeds will sprout slowly, flowers will open quietly, and I will wait quietly. I will water every seedling in the fertile soil of the campus with sweat and wait patiently for every seedling to grow sturdily. I will use my patience and confidence to lead every child to success. Let's wait patiently, listen to the sound of flowers, and wait for the happiness of flowers.
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Source: WeChat official account: home of education language and culture.
Author: Xie Xinghui
School: No.1 Primary School of Tieli Forestry Bureau
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