2, quiet and gentle, this is the method used for children who are willful and angry. When a child loses his temper, he is emotional, emotional and sometimes even cries. If parents patiently adopt the methods of affinity, caress and persuasion, they will make their children cry more and more; If parents are rude and impatient to beat and scold their children, it is still difficult to stop their willfulness.
3, the heart is the best, parents must first have a good and firm psychological state. Don't think that rejecting a child will cause harm. It is the best education for him. If you want to raise a great child, then in the face of his initial unreasonable demands, parents must resolutely say "no" and not be soft-hearted.
4. In a word, the requirements for treating children cannot be "suppressed first and then promoted". The practice of "restraining before promoting" will make children think that their parents are "bullying", so that unreasonable demands are increasing and the "level" is getting higher and higher. Once their parents can't meet his requirements, he will have extreme psychology and unexpected consequences. So, if you refuse a child, you must be loyal to him.
5, pre-stated, children are generally easy to forget the pre-agreement, so be sure to give him a rule, once the child violates the rules, it must be handled according to the rules. For example, make an agreement with your child: Dad goes to work in the morning, and you must get up on time to eat and send you to kindergarten on time.
6. In order to retire, parents can take a step back first. For example, when a child wants something that can't be given to him, his mother can say, "This is his mother's. She doesn't need it now. I can play it for you, but you have to return it to her tomorrow. " Then take the retreat as the advance-remind the child the next day: "Baby, give the things back to mom, and tell her later when you want to tell her."