Foreword: When educating children, we must remember that educating children must not be blind or ignorant. Sometimes some people will learn some educational chicken soup from the internet to blindly educate their children. When others come up with an educational method, you should follow it. When we educate children, most people will first educate their grades and then pay attention to their psychology, but sometimes you will find that the more you educate children, the easier it is for them to dislike learning. Because most children are rebellious, we need to tell them that the world is unequal when we educate them. We should redouble our efforts, and many people will tell them that as long as you work hard, there will be a good ending. As long as you work hard, you can be like others, but we should take your children to understand the reality.

Some children often have too much happiness for the future society, so when they are young, we should tell them that there is inequality in this world and equality is almost non-existent. Only by letting him realize the reality early can he get rid of some unrealistic dreams. Now many children say that they want to be actors and stars when they are young, but they can't see what their real strength is. Therefore, we should tell our children what are the prerequisites for becoming an actor and a star, and even more, it is not so easy to become an actor and a star. There are so many people who enter art colleges every year, but only a few really become actors. At the same time, we should also tell them what is the law of deviance.

Some children think that they can get good grades in the future even if they don't study hard. Maybe they will take some cases of grassroots counterattack as examples, but such cases are rare. There are1.400 million people in China, but there are only a few cases like this11100 million, so they have to imagine that his case must be blessed by God, so we should tell him while we are young. However, if you tell him too early that some things can't be realized no matter how hard you try, it may lead to children's boredom, giving up their efforts in learning and choosing to end in failure before implementation. Therefore, when educating children, we should tell them the correct educational methods, take them to understand the reality, and at the same time, we should not stifle their fighting spirit. So how should we educate our children?

First: Take more children to see the gap between people.

Although there are no three levels of occupation, today's society is still divided by grades. Let's take our children to see the lives of working people and white-collar workers, and then take him to see the lives of big bosses, so that he can know how different people from all walks of life are. When he knows that the world is inherently unequal, he will work harder, because at least if he works hard, he will not become a bottom person. At least happier than the people at the bottom. When people at the bottom will struggle for food and clothing for some time, people at the top have begun to think about which car to buy and which house to buy, so people at every level have troubles, but the patterns of troubles are different.

Second: Ask children more about their daily plans.

Life must have a plan, and life without a plan will be a mess. We should ask our children what they are doing today, what they are doing tomorrow and what they are doing the next second. According to the planned day, we can deal with the immediate things. Secondly, people's planning should be divided into long-term and short-term Long-term planning is a person's dream. Although this dream will be far away at present, even considered far away by many parents, a long-term plan can set a direction for a person to struggle, and a short-term plan can make people see the results in a short time and let him fight for the plan. Let him feel that planning is not a blank thing, so a good way of education is not to educate children how to improve their grades, but to help them plan their own life trajectory.

Message to parents:

While helping children, we should also remember to give them more private space, so that they can be more independent and have their own opinions and consciousness. There are limited things that parents can do to help him. Take more children, recognize the reality and take them to understand the future.