Children and parents have different expectations, so children should be allowed to be themselves. If children often express their opinions with their parents, parents should actively adopt them, so that there can be rules between children and themselves. Children always say that they are too stressed or too sad. As parents, we must take good care of the children next to us. In Bian Xiao's view, parents must always communicate with their children and take care of them in every possible way in order to let them know what kind of person they should be.

There must be communication. There must be communication in the process of getting along with children, because only in this way can we cultivate an unusual child. In any case, children should have ideas and go their own way. When it is important, parents should not smooth out all their children's difficulties. Without exercise, children will have no way to understand what they can do. If children don't want to study, parents should not choose many counseling institutions for their children. Although the study pressure is great and the competition is fierce, there is no way to make children feel a complete person without considering their mental health. Only by exploring can children have rich experience, and communicating with children is the correct way to get along.

Let the children work together. Parents should not take up all their children's study time, but must let their children combine work and rest. Children like painting and singing. Parents should support this child unconditionally and tell him that they will always be his backing. Children, whether ordinary or excellent, are their own lives. Children must be allowed to do what they like and be themselves. Parents should learn to let go smartly and don't emphasize what their children should do, which will make them feel like a handle. Parents should not blindly give money to their children, let them know that money is earned by their parents, and let them cherish life and work hard when they grow up.