1, the most reliable backing is family.
Parent-child method: praise children. In fact, parents' praise for their children is also a way of education, which is very important for their growth. As an educator said, "Never underestimate the impact of your words on a child's life." In fact, every child is eager for the recognition and affirmation of his parents, even when he reaches adulthood.
There is a concept in psychology called "primitive inferiority complex", which mainly comes from childhood. The main reason for this inferiority complex is improper and unscientific family education.
A psychologist warned: "Unexpressed emotions will never disappear, they are just buried alive, and one day, they will explode in an ugly way."
Parents' praise is always the best gift for children. If a child is often degraded, the misfortune of childhood will only make his growth path full of nightmares. Praise children's parents often, make children feel recognized by others, and create a happy family environment for children.
2, the companion's way: leave a good temper to your lover.
Some people say that daring to lose your temper is a sign of trusting each other. Therefore, some people often hurt each other with bad temper in front of people who love them, but the more times they hurt each other, the easier it is to alienate them. Everyone has a temper, it is instinct to take it out, and it is skill to suppress it.
If a person's external behavior represents his image quality, then his words and deeds at home determine the atmosphere of this family. Leave a good mood at home and treat your lover gently and kindly. Such a home is a warm harbor. Sometimes a lot of truth is actually known to everyone, but it is always impossible. Complaints can be silent, hot temper can be slowly changed, and never mention hurtful things.
3, the way to treat relatives: respect for parents.
All virtues: filial piety comes first. A person's attitude towards his parents is the temperature of his family. Thanks to your parents, you can't finish your childhood life. Some people always think: when I get rich, I must honor my parents and let them live a good life; When I have time in the future, I must always accompany my parents and let them enjoy my blessing.
But time is cruel, and filial piety is something we can't wait for in this life. Some people think that taking care of parents means giving them money to ensure that they have enough to eat and wear. But this is only superficial. Deeper love should be to treat parents with respect.
As a professor said: "It is easy for children to buy a car and a house for their parents when they are rich, but the hardest thing is not to show their parents." If you really love your parents, you should be kind to them. Parents are the roots of each of us. Respecting parents means fertilizing and watering yourself.
Some people say: "Home is the only place in the world where human shortcomings and failures are hidden, and it also contains sweet love." With children, reduce unnecessary reprimands and increase some encouragement and affirmation; Stay with your lover, reduce some blame, increase some understanding and consideration, stay with your parents, reduce unnecessary complaints and live in harmony naturally.
In this life, the warmest place is home, and the most reliable backing is family. As the saying goes, "Everything prospers at home", and goodwill among family members is the key to family prosperity.