1. Tell the children the fact that their parents are divorced calmly and encourage them to face the reality bravely. To do this, first of all, the party who lives with the children needs to accept the reality of divorce calmly. So you can face your child calmly and tell him that you are going to start a new life. This kind of life will be a little different from the original, and you need to make some adjustments to adapt; You will encounter some difficulties and need your joint efforts to overcome them. But no matter what happens, mom and dad still love you as always and will never change. 2. Give children a sense of security and don't use children as a weapon to retaliate against each other. The biggest blow to children from parents' divorce is a sense of insecurity. Therefore, it is very important for children to know that although their parents are divorced, they will never lose their love for their parents. Make him feel like he's just with his parents? Fang lives together, but life is as stable as before, so don't worry about anything.