Author/I love Xue Lu

What is conscience?

Conscience is a sense of obligation based on emotional attachment. It will inspire us to make seemingly unreasonable judgments and even self-destructive decisions.

Every normal person is essentially a philanthropist. This kind of love for strangers mainly comes from goodwill and empathy. This is the basic emotional attribute that every normal person is born with, except the "devil".

There is a story about a young girl whose father died. She attended the funeral sadly. Relatives and friends came to offer their condolences, even those whom they hadn't seen for years. Not long after the funeral, the girl's mother also died suddenly, another funeral. Shortly thereafter, the girl's brother also died. ...

Family members died one after another, which is obviously abnormal. Later, the murderer finally caught it. It turned out to be this girl. She caused the next two deaths.

So what is her motive for murdering her relatives? Conspiracy for inheritance?

The answer is staggering: at her father's funeral, she met a handsome distant cousin. She fell in love with him at first sight. So she did everything possible to create opportunities so that she could see him again.

Who would have thought that such a twisted heart was hidden under the beautiful and weak appearance? For a ridiculous desire, I don't hesitate to hurt the closest people around me.

Dr. Martha Stott, a famous American clinical psychiatrist, called this kind of person an antisocial personality. Their behavior is called unhealthy disorder, also called antisocial personality disorder, which is a kind of personality defect that cannot be corrected. Usually, antisocial personality does something that hurts others, and it is only punished on the surface, but it doesn't feel the pain of hurting others at all, and it doesn't feel guilty.

We know that the suspects in the massacre and serial killings are sociopaths, and we think these people are very few. In fact, more nonviolent antisocial personalities are lurking around us. Teachers who abuse children in kindergartens, leaders who sexually abuse female colleagues in offices, and neighbors who abuse children in villages. ...

In short, no one wrote who he was on his forehead. We can only keep our eyes open to prevent being hurt by others.

How can we distinguish antisocial personality?

1. Clinical diagnostic characteristics of antisocial personality

①? Unable to abide by social norms.

(2) used to deceive and manipulate others.

(3) Impulse, unable to plan ahead. ?

4 irritable and aggressive. ?

⑤ Ignoring the safety of yourself or others. ?

6. Always irresponsible.

⑦ No remorse after hurting, abusing or stealing others.

Three of the above characteristics are enough to be clinically diagnosed as antisocial personality disorder.

2. What are the common tricks and identification of antisocial personality?

(1) Use your charm without scruple, so it is usually amazing.

The demand for excitement exceeds that of ordinary people, and people like to take risks together. ?

(3) Have a strong ability to identify good people, and know at a glance who is good at bullying, easy to control and easy to deceive. ?

4 good at temptation.

Exquisite acting, pretending to be the embodiment of justice.

6 likes to pretend to be poor.

We must admit a bitter fact-some people just have no conscience. No one knows whether there are such terrible people lurking around us. All we can do is identify them and stay away from them.

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