Learn to care about children's self-esteem.
Among all human emotions, self-esteem is a positive emotion that people want others to affirm and value and self-affirm, a driving force for continuous pursuit and enterprising, and a spiritual pillar of life. With self-esteem, self-evaluation and self-supervision, self-control and self-education can be achieved; We can be strict, we can love ourselves, we can respect ourselves, and we can only blame ourselves if we do something wrong. Just as it is common for children to wet their pants in kindergartens, however, different teachers have different ways to deal with it. Some teachers will patiently help their children change clothes, but don't forget to educate them to "remember to go to the toilet or tell the teacher the next time you pee"; Some teachers are anxious to see in their eyes: "Is it shameful for such a big person to pee his pants?" Of course, many teachers will criticize children in public. However, some teachers use "sweating" as an excuse to help children. This kind of treatment is worthy of our teacher's reflection. Have we considered children's feelings when dealing with these problems? Have you paid attention to protecting your child's self-esteem? Only by empathy and thinking from the child's point of view can we really care for the child's self-esteem.
Second, learn to respect children.
The "love" of preschool teachers is first embodied in "respecting children". Although the children in kindergarten are young and full of enthusiasm, they are all independent people. They have thoughts, feelings and will, and they have the rights they deserve.
First of all, we should fully realize the child's personality.
An educator pointed out: "Children must be helped to do things themselves, decide their own activities and choose their own toys. Let children feel that they are independent individuals and they can become more confident and work harder. " Children are unique individuals. There are many differences in their development level and speed, and we should respect these differences. At the same time, children are the real subjects of their own learning and development, and promoting development with the active participation of children is a deeper respect for children. We should not only call children learners, but also realize that they have rich inner world, independent personal dignity and great development potential. They have many different characteristics and needs from adults, and they need our respect, care and love, which is an important requirement for our kindergarten teachers' morality.
Secondly, following the law of children's development, teachers should treat children and themselves equally and respect their opinions.
Children have independent psychological needs, and they want to know and perceive the world from their own perspective according to their own wishes. Therefore, respecting children means following the laws of children's physical and mental development and treating children as a developing individual with independent consciousness and personality. Our teachers' understanding and respect in the teaching process will meet children's psychological needs and develop their body, mind and intelligence.
Third, impress children with sincerity.
In the process of teaching, full contact with children is equivalent to telling them that it is very important for me to be with you, and it will be good soon. The children will also come to the conclusion that I am cute and good, so the teacher likes me. So I want to be cuter and cuter, and the teacher will like me more. This shows that the virtuous circle of godmother has been realized. Without words, children will feel respected and valuable, and their self-confidence will gradually form. Only in this way can children truly appreciate the teacher's deep love.
Fourth, correctly guide children to have sex.
As I said above, children are also individuals, an individual in society, so our teachers should respect children's spiritual needs. They have not only the right to education, but also the right to rest, play and entertain. Children's interests are rooted in
The needs of children, on the basis of needs, have a certain tendency. This need is actually a right that young children should enjoy.
We should bear in mind that the right to play is the most important thing to be recognized and respected in childhood. Only by respecting the desire to give children games every year can we really love children. Five, squat down and talk to the child.
Really respect, love and guide children, then the countryside in children's hearts will always be sunny, birds and flowers will be fragrant, and the seedlings of children's personality will grow in rows until they flourish! We often ignore the dignity of children as independent individuals who are completely equal to us, and get used to being above others, which leads to the gap between us and our children. If all our "adults" can put down their airs, crouch down, respect children's preferences and specialties, and try their best to meet their reasonable wishes and requirements.
Sisters,
Let us use "heart" to understand children and "behavior" to respect children. Only in this way can we truly enter the children's spiritual world, and only in this way can our kindergarten truly become a paradise for children to grow up freely.