Intelligence differences between male and female newborns whose intelligence development is later than that of girls.
Huangdi Neijing says that the growth cycle of men is 8 years, and that of women is 7 years, especially for children and men.
The newborn baby girl is smarter than the baby boy. From the moment of birth, their intelligence is more mature than that of boys for several weeks, which can be shown in that they know how to smile earlier than boys, go to bed earlier, cry for the company of adults earlier, and say long sentences and complex sentences earlier.
What about preschool boys and girls?
Sun Yunxiao, deputy director and researcher of China Youth Research Center, said that according to international research, the development level of early brain language areas of boys is indeed later than that of girls. When a boy is five years old, he is only equivalent to the language development ability of a three-and-a-half-year-old girl. So he also agrees that it is better for children to go to school one year later, but they should go to school before the age of 8.
According to the kindergarten life teacher, those older children will be easier to take care of, while those younger children are not as good as other older children in kindergarten, including self-care, self-control and psychological endurance. If they are the same age, girls will understand teachers more easily than boys, and they will be relatively smart, because girls will develop mentally earlier than boys. Therefore, 3-year-old girls can enter the park, and 3-year-old boys suggest postponing it, which is the reason.
What's the difference between boys and girls at school age?
When children enter primary school, the gap between boys and girls still exists and is getting bigger and bigger. The intellectual development of boys is generally two years later than that of girls, so why are girls always among the best in primary school and even junior high school? This development difference often leads to boys being placed in an unfair position, because they can't keep up with girls of the same age in their studies, and their attention in class is not as good as that of girls. Even some children are still walking around the classroom like kindergarten, so they are not valued by teachers, and even often become the object of criticism and boredom by teachers.
Many foreign scholars have suggested that boys should go to school one year later, which makes it easier for boys to accept the heavy responsibility of learning when they are more mature.
Can boys delay going to school for one year?
Even scholars in China are aware of the psychological differences between boys and girls, but the school age stipulated by the state is the same for boys and girls, which is 3 years old in kindergarten and 6 years old in primary school. Parents can decide the age of admission, but public kindergartens have strict regulations. In primary school, children need a hospital certificate to go to school one year later, otherwise they can't sign up for school. Under this premise, even if we want our boys to go to school one year later, there is nothing we can do.
What should we do as parents?
At least know that when your little boy's intellectual development will be later than that of a girl, if the child is worse than the girl of the same age in life and study, don't compare your child with others or even laugh at your child for being stupid. This is the biggest ignorance of parents.
Ma Bao said:
Finally, finally,
Parents should also let their children's teachers know this.
Be more patient and tolerant of the boys in the class.
The most important thing is to treat children equally.
Don't wear colored glasses for children with poor academic performance.
The intelligence difference between boys and girls is 1, and the intelligence distribution between boys and girls is slightly different.
On the whole, girls' intelligence distribution is relatively concentrated, while boys' intelligence is slightly different. In other words, there is a big gap between boys' different intelligence levels, while women's intelligence is relatively average.
2. In some aspects of intellectual activities.
During the development of girls, they can quickly and keenly distinguish touch, pain and hearing. Because the fingertips feel rapid development, they will also do some fine movements. Although boys are not like girls, they have strong visual discrimination and spatial ability.
Girls' language expression ability will also be much stronger than boys'. Girls will speak earlier than boys and know more vocabulary, so there will be fewer language defects and boys will stutter.
Boys have better hands-on ability than girls. Because they are energetic, they will play with things and then disassemble them. At this time, their reasoning and judgment ability developed rapidly, far exceeding that of girls.
The external image of girls is much better than that of boys, and they consider problems more comprehensively. Boys are better at abstract reasoning and creative thinking than girls. So girls and boys have their own characteristics.
There are differences in special talents between boys and girls.
Generally speaking, girls have advantages in acting, while boys have advantages in operation and sports.
Although boys and girls have their own characteristics in intelligence, different situations can occur for each specific person. Therefore, every parent should give full play to their children's talents, their advantages, and overcome their shortcomings, so as to give full play to their children's intelligence.
Of course, acquired education and innate factors are more important. There is no difference in intelligence between boys and girls. As long as they are properly educated, both girls and boys will succeed in their careers.
The physical and mental development of the boy in Huangdi Neijing The boy's hair grows fast, which is a manifestation of the fullness of essence and blood.
The physical development of boys is one year later than that of girls. In addition, from this physical and mental point of view, boys are sensible and start to be sensible later than girls. One year later than girls.
It puts its hair in front, that is, what is a man's blood?
Hair is erect, particularly thick, and, that is, shaved after the age of eight, hair grows particularly fast. Basically, it will be cut in a week. If you don't get a haircut, it's just very rough and ugly. Alas, young man, dignified and strong, this hair is rough, in fact, this is a manifestation of Xue Jing's fullness.
Boys who change their teeth late and have wide teeth need to help him tonify kidney qi consciously.
He first showed it in his hair, that is, after he was eight years old, the boy's deciduous teeth fell off. Oh, I lost it and got a new tooth. However, if some kidney qi is weak, he has it, that is, the deciduous teeth are sometimes not completely replaced, and some teeth that should be lost are not lost. This is a manifestation of kidney qi or kidney essence and blood deficiency.
At this time, we should consciously use some dietotherapy or traditional Chinese medicine to help these boys who have changed their teeth late, or whose teeth have not grown well, or whose teeth are particularly wide.
Sweet food enters the spleen, but inhibits the kidney.
It can be supplemented by some diet and medicine. One more thing to remind you, sweet things are the most harmful to kidney qi.
Ah, for example, if you eat watermelon, you will continue to pee and eat too many sweets, or you will get this kind of diabetes in the future. Children know that eating too much polysaccharide is bad for their teeth. Sweet things tonify the spleen and are good for the spleen and stomach. What does the spleen and stomach belong to in the theory of five elements? Earth. Where's the kidney? What is this? Water. Tibetan essence belongs to water. What is their relationship? It's Tuk water. So you eat sweet things to enhance the function of the spleen and stomach. However, at the same time, it will definitely weaken the function of the kidney. So I suggest that children must eat less sugar, or not eat sugar at all.
Liang Dong: What kind of food should we eat?
Xu Wenbing: Well, bitter tastes strong for the kidney. What to eat? Frying hard fruits and nuts is good for children and the elderly.
What will happen to the elderly after renal failure? Kidney governs ambition, he always forgets things, and his short-term memory and recent memory are particularly poor. He remembered that it was decades ago. At this time, he is aging and his brain is shrinking. What do we do with these?
Boil some walnuts with salt water, or bake them with that, and then peel off the thin layer of walnuts. This has a particularly good nourishing effect on this part of people, that is, people with insufficient kidney qi and kidney qi.
Another manifestation of kidney-qi deficiency is urine leakage or bed wetting.
What are some other little boys doing? Wet the bed. The kidney is full of energy. What is a kidney? Sealed and hidden. When the kidney is full of qi, you can hold it back. What are the main manifestations of deficiency of kidney-qi? I can't hold my urine. Who else? Cough and smile, and the urine will come out. The performance for children is to wet the bed. Therefore, for these children, we should follow the heaven, when they should change their teeth, or when their teeth are particularly wide and sparse, and when their hair is still a little yellow, they should quickly tonify the kidney.
When people reach the age of twenty-eight, eighty-six and sixteen in nominal age, that is, from the age of eight to sixteen, the kidney qi becomes particularly grand and full from reality. At this time, his second performance is that the second sexual characteristics begin to develop. He jumped with the pulse distributed around his lips. At this time, he began to grow a beard. Once a person's pulse is weak, his beard will be less. If there is no qi and blood in the pulse, this person will scream and we will scream? Tian Yan? .
A 24-year-old boy who has never had sex.
His kidney essence will be more supportive of his intellectual development.
Sperm first. This sperm refers to the visible substance. We only use it here, that is, the essence of reproduction. Ah, that means male semen, including sperm. Qi refers to what we call vitality, that is, the energy produced by kidney essence. The essence is that it has a material basis and is substantial. Then, it is also full of vitality. This material adds energy, or we will talk about yin and yang later. What's the result of this case between yin and yang? One is overflow and the other is diarrhea. Overflow and diarrhea are different. Er, the water is boiling, and the water in the pot overflows. Where did it come from? It comes out from above. What about diarrhea? Open the floodgates and release water. It overflows from the bottom. So, what about the essence overflow? First of all, we say that there will be a situation in it, which is called fine overflow and fine overflow. Ah, that is to say, the essence, or this kind of semen, or strength, accumulates to a certain extent and will be discharged without any external force or stimulation. This is what we say, some children will have the phenomenon of wet dream. /kloc-after 0/6 years old, this is a sign of his maturity, a sign of health, and, ah, a sign of physical maturity.
The so-called diarrhea is that you artificially add some strength. We sometimes refer to sexual behavior, some are sexual intercourse between men and women, and some are released by yourself. Now it is called. Masturbation? . At this time, it means physical maturity. At this time, yin and yang meet, so-called? Harmony of yin and yang It refers to the communication between men and women. After the combination of yin and yang, girls 14 years old mature, boys 16 years old mature. In theory, you can have a baby at this time. However, when I was talking about women, I said what women should look like when they reach maturity, 2 1 year. Suppose the boy is 24 years old, that is to say, theoretically, he has children by this time. But if you can preserve these essences for your own growth and development, you will develop well and grow strong, including your intelligence and wisdom.
Protecting kidney qi: bite your teeth when urinating
There are many ways to tonify the kidney from ancient times to the present, but these have been ignored. I'll tell you two. What is one? My biology teacher told me in middle school. Why did he study Chinese medicine? He is a student of biology, and he has severe diabetes himself. This person has a common hobby when he is sick or dying. Learn Chinese medicine. So he told us one thing at that time. What? Grind your teeth when you pee. Well, teeth belong to the kidney, as everyone knows. This defecation function also belongs to the kidney. So defecation is with the kidney. When you push hard, gnash your teeth at this time. No air leakage, no air leakage. After contacting many of my Chinese medicine teachers and some of these Tai Chi and art teachers, they all told me this method without exception.
So, we don't talk when we eat. I told you, don't talk when you pee. Both men and women will form this habit all their lives.
Don't say anything if you commit suicide. In fact, this is a feeling that some people in ancient times felt when they walked and stood on piles for practice. He could feel where the gas went and how it dissipated, so he would grind his teeth at that time.
Another way is for us to call. Gu Dao? , call? Lift the anus? .