Recently, a minor was emotional because he was discouraged by volunteers when riding a balance car during nucleic acid testing. He had a dispute with volunteers with a knife, was stopped by residents and brought back by his parents. When I saw this video, I really felt why this behavior happened to my children, which was a bit extreme. I really feel sorry for this child. So impulsive at such a young age, what should I do when I grow up? What will happen if no one is around to stop him in the future? I really dare not think about it, so it is really important for parents to educate their children.
Children who have done something wrong must be corrected in time.
I have to say that today's children are really smarter than Fang, and they also know how to look at adults' faces. My colleague's children are just like adults, and they are good at watching adults blink. If they do something, they will look at the eyes of adults. If they are not angry, then he thinks it is ok to do so and will continue to sit next time. But if an adult is angry, he will ask you if you can do it next time, so if the child does something wrong, he must correct it in time. Because if you don't correct his behavior, it is equivalent to acquiescence, so even if it is wrong or bad, the child will think it is ok and no problem.
Make rules from an early age
Children must set good rules when they are young. Children are a blank sheet of paper, and what they draw in it is actually drawn by their parents themselves. The rule is to tell children what to do, what not to do, how to do it and how to do it well. This stage requires patience, but once the rules are established, it will be easier for parents.
Children should be taught to take responsibility.
Many people make way for their children, or think they are too young. Parents stand in front of their children to shelter them from the wind and rain. Many people think that children can naturally take responsibility when they grow up, but these are all wrong. In fact, children should be taught to take responsibility when they are young, and let them know that they have to bear the consequences when they do something wrong. When they grow up, they will know what they can and should not do.
Communicate with children more.
Communicate with children more, better understand what children are thinking, and find and understand where children need to be corrected. However, after communication, instead of directly telling children what is wrong, we must change what is wrong, but we must also respect their ideas, discuss with them what to do when they encounter things, and let them truly understand what is right, communicate and communicate, while respecting their ideas.
Educating children also requires parents to start from themselves. Parents are children's first teachers, and children are another copy of their parents. Therefore, it is very important for parents to guide their children on the right path. Therefore, as parents, we must first give our children a good start in order to embark on the right path.