1, don't trust children. Many parents have this cognitive misunderstanding, and feel that ignoring their children will ruin them. It is possible for children to kill and set fire, and it is lawless.

Parents take care of their children and worry about them every day, and this mode of getting along has been going on. As a result, children outsource this part of their management functions to their parents. Children's self-management ability has been weakened or even cultivated. Therefore, many children have no motivation to learn and are not active, which is the result of excessive arrangement by their parents.

2. treat children as machines without emotions and feelings. Many parents especially like obedient children. I hope that children will do whatever they say, don't talk back, don't refute, parents will give instructions, and children will follow them. Think of the child as a machine. She will obey my orders. Otherwise, you will be beaten. We are emotionally isolated from our children at this time, and many children's problems are caused by improper parental education methods.

3. Parents regard themselves as gods and rarely present their true selves in front of their children. Many parents have high moral standards for themselves. They want to be perfect in front of their children, regardless of their own needs and feelings, and are willing to sacrifice themselves for their children. I ask myself not to have emotions and lose my temper, and I hope I can be a perfect parent. But the result is not only that the child is stressed, but also very tired.