First of all, parents convey correct values and outlook on life. Children have their own independent consciousness and thinking ability. Don't think they are ignorant, parents should instill a correct outlook on life and education in time, and demonstrate and guide them with their limbs. When treating the elders at home, parents should first have a grateful heart and be a giver, so that the children who are educated at home will be affected and get a good upbringing.
The second is proper care and giving, and parents learn to refuse reasonably. In the eyes of parents, children are always children, and it is normal to give and nurture protection, but they will grow up and have their own ideas and consciousness. Parents' care and dedication should also be controlled and measured, so that they can have independent personality and the ability to analyze things right and wrong. Parents should learn to reject their children's unreasonable demands correctly, tell their children not to just take, but to learn to accept and give in both directions, and teach them to be responsible for their own affairs and be grateful to their children like real adults. The elders in the family.
Third, let children experience the hardships of life and work hard with their parents. Cultivate children's sense of gratitude from an early age. In today's society, most children are spoiled by their parents, resulting in a state of "food and clothing". Children want what they have, know it's hard to come by, and naturally don't know how to cherish it, let alone be grateful. Parents must educate their children to work hard, and don't let them feel that money is white, and not many people can buy anything they want. Teach children to pay if they want to harvest, and give them more opportunities to work and experience life by themselves.
The fourth is gratitude education on special occasions. Sometimes gratitude education works best on special occasions, such as grandparents' or parents' birthdays, which is a good opportunity for children to learn to be grateful. On the basis of birthdays, teaching children to be grateful has a deeper meaning, and children will be deeply impressed in their minds.
Arrange children to do some housework within their power. Don't spoil your children. Now, during the summer vacation, children spend most of their time at home. Parents can arrange their children to do some housework while adults are working, such as washing clothes and cleaning. Room, or help adults choose dishes and wash dishes, so that parents can save time and cook early when they come home from work.