Thinking about expectations
Maybe the source of anxiety is that you feel that children are drifting away from your expectations? But have you ever wondered if your expectations also meet their wishes?
Listen to your heart.
Children are generally precocious. Have you really understood their inner world? What kind of voice is hidden behind their rebellion?
Guide rather than shape
Successful parents will not mold their children into what they want, because children will never become what you want. Try to change from the role of a shaper to a guide, and maybe you will find a brand-new parent-child relationship.