1, reasonable control. Reasonable control refers to telling children the boundaries of doing things, that is, what can and cannot be done. Discipline should be authoritative: when children may make mistakes and need discipline, let them know that you are serious. Parents demand not only punishment, but also rewards. Controlling children in a harmonious way can cultivate their discipline. When you make a request to your child, you should tell the child the reason for making this request. Parents should keep together when controlling their children. If the two sides disagree about controlling the child, it is best to discuss it without the child present. This is done to establish the authority letter of parents. Don't punish excessively, otherwise it will be child abuse. Another good way to manage children is to reward them when they behave well.

2. To change children, parents must first change themselves. Educating children is also a process of educating yourself. The learning model is imitative, and many bad behaviors of children are often learned from the environment or parents. Teaching children by example is the most reliable way.

3. It's really a headache for parents when their children reach the rebellious period, but there is no way to deal with it. It is most important to understand the child's inner thoughts first, and then "prescribe the right medicine" so that parents' efforts will not be in vain.