First, help children fully understand their pride. Children tend to unilaterally expand their own advantages in one aspect and overestimate themselves, thus ignoring their own shortcomings. They always compare their own strengths with others' weaknesses and are complacent about it. In this way, children can easily become arrogant. Mothers should let their children fully understand themselves and make them realize that they only have a slight advantage in a small range. If they are arrogant and slack, it will be difficult to make progress. When they can measure themselves correctly, they will not feel complacent easily.

Second, make children aware of the dangers of pride. Pride and confidence are different. Self-confidence is a positive attitude towards life, which can make people optimistic and enterprising. Pride is an incomplete understanding of oneself. It is blind optimism that will make people unwilling to make progress. However, some children confuse the two and regard their little pride as a sign of self-confidence. At this time, the mother should help the child distinguish.

Wei has been the monitor because of his excellent grades. He is very proud of this, and people have become proud. She stopped listening carefully in class and shrugged off her classmates' suggestions. After learning these things from the teacher, my mother decided to enlighten Wei. She asked Wei, do you know why the students chose you as the monitor? Wei thought about it and replied, because I have good grades and good popularity. Mom nodded, that's right, but those things were obtained through your hard work and struggle, and now you just want to enjoy these achievements without retaining these advantages. In this case, can you be elected next time?

Can you still be a monitor? Wei bowed his head in shame and his mother continued to enlighten him. If your friend ignores you after making achievements, do you think you will be as close to him as before? Wei shook his head thoughtfully. Any achievement is only phased and partial, and there is no end to learning. For a while, the protagonist will get carried away.

It is precisely the lack of knowledge and vision. If children are always in a blind sense of superiority, they will gradually relax their requirements, so even if they are excellent for a while, they will eventually become mediocre. Arrogant children often make people stay away from them. Therefore, mothers should make their children aware of the dangers of pride.

Third, let the children treat criticism correctly. A person who can accept criticism can often clearly recognize his own shortcomings. Children are biased when evaluating themselves, probably because they don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, only on this mountain. To this end, mothers should let their children have a correct attitude, listen carefully to other people's criticisms and suggestions, and constantly enrich and improve themselves. In addition, mothers should broaden their children's horizons, guide them out of the narrow circle of self, and let them know more about the achievements and talents of successful people.

At the same time, let children realize that their achievements are really the result of their own efforts, but don't forget that this also includes the cultivation of parents, the teaching of teachers and the help of classmates.

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