Two people often have different views on children's education. Because two people do have different views and opinions on some children's problems. Therefore, in order to prevent this from happening, parents suggest that when educating children, two people should fully communicate and communicate how to educate children. For example, if the child and the child did not discuss the fight in advance, the father would say to the child, "You did the right thing. If someone hits you, you should call again! " "It's time for education." Mom may have a different opinion. She might say that to her children. "Dear, if you can't win others, won't you suffer? So if someone hits you, you run to tell the teacher, or go home to help your mother! " You see, the father advocates fighting back and the mother advocates avoiding it. Their education methods are completely different. Who should children listen to?

In order to avoid this educational difference, parents should discuss privately how to educate their children and the programs that everyone agrees with. Educate children like this, and you won't tell your truth. I told the truth about me, leaving the children at a loss! How can parents cooperate with their children's education more effectively? The fourth step leads you in the right direction. Parents sing songs to each other and integrate the idea of educating their children into daily conversations and chats, so as to achieve the realm of "the speaker has meaning and the listener has heart". A little girl painted her mother's lipstick all over her face, but she never changed her mind. Her reason is very good: why can my mother draw and I can't use it?

So even if you dare not paint in front of your parents, you are secretly painting behind your back. At this time, parents can educate her by chatting diagonally. For example, at the dinner table, mom asked dad while eating. "Have you seen Xiao Li recently?" "Dad said to his mother," Which Xiao Li? Mom said. "Our unit is the little daughter of Teacher Zhou who lives in this community, remember?" Dad said in fear that he could not hide. "Oh, that's Xiao Li, don't talk about her when eating!" Mom asked. "What's the matter? What happened to her? When I told my parents to tell such a story, the little girl next to me didn't speak, but she had been listening carefully. But dad pretended not to know and continued to talk to his mother. " I was hospitalized two days ago, and the doctor cut her face several times, and her face was ugly. "Mom asked quickly." Why do you need surgery? Dad replied in horror.

Not because I want to use my mother's rouge lipstick, but because my face finally rotted. The expression "Xiu Xiu is a bit scary. The little girl heard her mother's lipstick stop here. Because she was scared, scared, how dare she doodle? How can parents cooperate with their children's education more effectively? The fourth step leads you in the right direction. Because mom and dad have different influences, when educating children, if mom and dad can work together, they can get twice the result with half the effort. For example, when the child is 0-6 years old, the father can participate more with the child, thus getting rid of the child's excessive attachment to the mother.

Studies have shown that if children aged 0-6 are too attached to their mothers and never leave their mothers, they are likely to have problems such as difficulty in integrating into the collective, reluctance to go to kindergarten, fear of the tail, inferiority complex, and never taking the initiative when getting along with others. Therefore, in the process of children's healthy growth, mom and dad work together. Only in this way can children get love and education in the same direction, and at the same time they will not be excessively bound. The father is responsible for the general direction of children's development, and the mother provides the power of love needed for children's growth, so that children can always feel the strong arms and gentle and inclusive eyes behind them, and let children fly to distant places with more peace of mind and receive healthy education.