How to educate children not to touch other people's privacy? Incidents of sexual abuse of children have occurred from time to time. It is important for parents to tell their children which parts of the body are private. The following share how to educate children not to touch other people's privacy?

How to educate children not to touch other people's privacy 1 What should we tell children about sex education?

1. The most important thing in children's sex education is to teach children to know their own body, organs and functions, as well as the difference between themselves and their parents and friends.

2. Children in gender-aware kindergartens are not clear about gender. They can't understand that physical gender is innate. Adults need to teach their children the physiological differences between boys and girls.

3. Privacy and safety education

First of all, let the children know their private parts and tell them that everyone's body belongs to him. Don't let others touch your body at will, and don't touch other people's bodies at will.

Secondly, adults should also set an example, and children will follow the behavior of adults to protect privacy.

With regard to understanding the body, adults can watch picture books and popular science videos with their children, and also let children have a better understanding of their bodies when taking a bath.

Eccentric behavior

1. Touch that scares you.

2, without your consent, let you have a painful touch.

3. Anyone touches your private parts.

4. Any touch that makes you uncomfortable.

5. Any contact you don't want.

Tell your parents or teachers when these things happen.

Teachers have carried out privacy and safety education courses in kindergartens, and parents need to strengthen these awareness after their children return home, so that children can establish their own privacy and safety awareness.

How to teach children not to touch others' privacy? 2 how to teach children to correctly understand the privacy part?

The frequent occurrence of sexual assault cases has made many parents feel that it is impossible to prevent. I wonder if parents have found that it is actually very difficult to keep children away from or even afraid of strangers.

First, because [sexual assault] cases mostly happen to acquaintances, not so-called "strange uncles".

Second, it will make children afraid of socializing. In fact, what we have to do is to build a line of defense for children from the most fundamental and conscious aspects.

Help children establish a physical bottom line.

The lack of children's knowledge about sex safety is the main reason why children are violated. Teaching children to have a sense of [sex] safety is actually very simple: the place covered by clothes and underwear can't be shown to others, nor can others touch it.

Parents should first let their children know about their bodies and know the names of various parts, including which parts are the most important and private. Don't look and touch them at will.

For children, drawing is the easiest way. Show the children the pictures below, tell them that the parts covered by shorts and vests are "not allowed to be seen and touched at will", and let the children point out which parts of the pictures are private. This is much better than parents trying to explain what private parts are.

In fact, children's lips, ears, chest and neck are places that others can't touch at will. Parents in China like to let their children be "hugged, patted, hugged and kissed" by their relatives and friends to show their love. Even passers-by don't stop kissing and cuddling children, and they don't care about children's resistance. Just teach them to be obedient and kiss.

But it is precisely these behaviors that may make young children not understand their rights boundaries. When parents are not present, they mistakenly think that sexual assault and molestation by other elders and strangers is a way of showing love, and they think that they should be "obedient". So I chose not to resist.

In addition, of course, we should also tell our children not to touch other people's private parts. If children ask why we can't touch them, we should tell them in time that this is uncivilized behavior.

Parents can clearly tell their children that if you feel uncomfortable with any touch or contact from others, you can say "no" and immediately try to "walk away". Even if someone holds your hand, kisses your face and touches your head.

Establish children's sense of crisis

A good sense of crisis is more important than letting children know their private parts. For children, private parts are still a new concept and knowledge, if there is no good sense of crisis. These concepts and knowledge are like empty floors without foundation, and they can't really protect their own safety.

So, how to cultivate children's sense of crisis? What parents need to do is actually to remind them more in their daily lives. For example, tell children when they are taking a bath: "Now mom/dad can look at your body and touch your body, because we are your closest people and can clean your body;"

When you get to the hospital, under the supervision of your parents, doctors and nurses can also look at your health, which is to treat you. But beyond that, others, no matter who they are, even our relatives, can only touch you with our consent and your own will. "

It is worth noting that 70% of child sexual abuse cases are committed by acquaintances, which means that children's awareness of prevention is not limited to what we often call "strange uncles". In order to give children a safer and healthier environment, the establishment of correct consciousness should first start from parents.

Tell children how to face threats.

In a large number of real cases of child [sexual] abuse, a very common reason why children do not choose to tell their parents is that they are threatened. If you dare to tell your parents, I will kill you/your parents.

Including one time when we were carrying out activities for our children, even though the children knew their private parts clearly. But when we ask, "If you dare tell Mom and Dad, I will kill you." Many children choose not to tell their parents.

Therefore, parents must emphasize to their children: "You can lie when facing the bad guys, and don't believe what the bad guys say. Mom and dad will protect you. As long as you tell the police uncle, the bad guys will be caught! "

Being sexually assaulted is not the child's fault.

Every child has a sense of covering up his mistakes. When they feel that they have done a bad thing, they will choose silence or lie to keep it from their parents. When children are sexually assaulted, many children don't know that they have been sexually assaulted, but there is a feeling that this seems to be a bad thing and can't be known by parents. They might get angry and hit me.

Therefore, parents need to tell their children: "If someone touches your private parts, don't be afraid. This is definitely not your fault. Be sure to tell your parents when you get home. Mom and dad won't hit you or scold you. You are my parents' favorite baby. On the contrary, parents will encourage you to tell us about it. "

How to educate children not to touch other people's privacy 3? Let children know what privacy is.

Parents in China are not aware of their children's privacy protection. Because in the traditional concept, children are the private property of parents and should always be supervised and managed by parents. Especially for the older generation, it doesn't matter because the children are small. It is common to give children bare arms and take off their pants in public on a hot day.

To improve privacy awareness, children should first know what privacy is, starting with their parents and then practicing it in life situations.

-For example, children should be educated on gender in pre-school enlightenment, and parents should not show shyness, evasion and other emotions. And this time period is also the time when children are interested in gender. Tell your child why you are a boy and why she is a girl through some popular science books and mannequins. What are the physiological differences between girls and boys?

For example, when taking a shower or going to the toilet, help the children close the door, close the curtains, and tell them that no one can touch your body except parents and doctors for health reasons. This is very important, not only to cultivate children's privacy awareness, but also to prevent children from mistakenly treating everything as privacy.

-one thing is easy to be overlooked. One thing, parents should tell their children not to touch other people's bodies at any time.

In addition to always paying attention in life, you can also strengthen this awareness by means of games.

For example, prepare a picture of the human body, and then give the child a sticker to stick on the part that he thinks belongs to privacy.

-When children grow up, they can prepare some scene toys, such as dressing rooms and bathrooms, and let them substitute themselves by telling stories, and what to do at each step. Parents and children can also read excellent sex education picture books together.

-For example, give children a "privacy box", "privacy room" and other spaces, so that children can put things they feel private and can't share in them, and no one is allowed to open them.

How to let children learn to protect themselves?

Raising privacy awareness is the first step, so the second step is to let children be alert to harm and learn to protect themselves.

Li Meijin, a professor at the People's Public Security University of China and a psychologist in crime research, talked about her educational view in a program, that is, we should tell our children a real society, not build an imaginary utopia for them.

Only by telling children the real society can parents' self-protection education be meaningful and help them to be alert to hidden dangers.

-Let children learn to refuse strangers.

There was a real case before. On the way to school, a child met an adult and asked him to lead the way to a strange place. The child refused, but after telling his parents, the parents felt that something was wrong and called the police. As a result, this adult is really an absconding criminal.

Why? Because a normal, healthy adult in all aspects, when encountering difficulties, the first reaction is definitely not to ask children for help. To take a step back, even if only children can ask for help, then the difficulties that adults can't solve are basically powerless for children.

-Talk with children every day, so that children can trust their parents. If there are difficulties, parents should show their children the ability to solve them.

Only when children trust their parents will they share their puzzles, problems and dangers with them. Bullying cases are common on campus, but many students were shocked to find that their children had such an experience on campus, and it was only after being seriously injured that they made it public. Why? First, because parents don't pay attention to their children's state in time, the second child is generally threatened while being bullied. Parents' usual neglect makes children have no confidence that their parents can help them solve this problem.

-Good touch and bad touch

Parents need to remind the "bad guys" around their children, not only strangers, but also amiable teachers, coaches, uncles, aunts, grandfathers and grandmothers! In the sex education curriculum of American primary schools, teachers will tell children that "the place where bathing suits are worn is a private part, and you can't show them to others, touch them, watch them or touch them." But more often, teachers will popularize the concept of good touch with children.

Good touch refers to those peaceful and pleasant touches that make children feel loved, such as mother's kiss and touch when they wake up in the morning and father's kiss and touch when they sleep at night. Touching that makes children feel uncomfortable, painful and unwilling, even if it is not a private part, is also a bad touch.

Parents can tell their children that when they encounter bad touches, they can try their best to escape, run away, shout for help, find familiar and trusted people, such as parents and police uncles, tell them the truth, and never keep any secrets from those who make you feel uncomfortable. ......

Many parents are vague about their children's border awareness and often don't care about some small details. In such an environment, it is difficult to establish children's privacy awareness. Only when parents begin to respect their children's privacy, their bodies and their sense of boundaries will children understand that their bodies and privacy are precious and should not be touched or exposed casually.