Parent-teacher conference: the experience of educating children

Dear teachers and parents,

Good afternoon everyone! It is a great honor to have such an opportunity to learn and communicate with you today.

As the parent of Wang xx, I am neither an educator nor a psychologist. I am just an ordinary office worker. I just try my best to educate my child with what I have learned and explore her step by step in ignorance. She is a lively, lovely and generous girl, and all our family regard her as a treasure. But correspondingly, we also face some educational problems. Now let me talk about my own experience in recent years:

1, I pay great attention to the family atmosphere and try to be harmonious and healthy. Family members respect each other, do not swear, and are not rude. On the other hand, it also pays attention to the cultivation of family reading atmosphere, and children must not be disturbed and influenced when studying. Let her always notice that her parents are often immersed in reading, and let her understand the importance of reading.

We attach great importance to children's ideological and moral education, and people's quality is the first factor. Children will inevitably be negatively or negatively affected by some surrounding environment during their growth. Therefore, we should give all positive education to children, help them distinguish truth, goodness and beauty, and cultivate their qualities of kindness, tolerance, positive optimism, compassion, respect for teachers, unity with classmates and discipline. Once good habits are formed, they will benefit for life. For example, when my child was in the second grade, Chinese class required to keep a diary. At first, Wang was disgusted with keeping a diary. She doesn't know how to write, just like a running book. I was really anxious. I thought that as a parent, it was impossible for me to let my daughter know how to write. So I began to act, saying more than once that I should pay attention to observation and feel my feelings, so that I can write something in my eyes and something in my heart. At the weekend, I took her to the newly built Dayu Park and told her to pay attention to the changes in her mood, from the big word "Yu" to the pavilions in the park, from flowing water to majestic stone pillars. After coming back, I wrote a beautiful "Dayu Park". Another example is going to the aunt's house. Her cousin's composition was not so good, so Wang began to teach him, saying that writing a composition should first pay attention to observation; The second is to write out what you see in your eyes and think in your heart, that is, to write out your feelings through modifiers. For example, some flowers are beautiful, so we should pay attention to colorful, colorful and colorful words; The third is to deduct the topic at the end. Hehe, I am very happy to see the child speak clearly. I didn't expect the child to be a teacher himself without knowing it. ...

Parents are the first teachers in children's life. Our words and deeds have a subtle influence on children. We are not only the children's mentors, but also their beneficial friends. When it comes to the influence of parents' behavior on children, you can give an example. For example, when I type on the computer, I usually use five strokes. Generally, I don't change the language bar with the mouse. I always use CTRL+SHIFT to change it. Once, I found that my child actually used these two keys to convert into pinyin typing when searching things online. At that time, I was surprised. I never taught her. I asked her how she knew, and she said I was watching you learn. I suddenly understood that my behavior has such an effective influence on children! Therefore, we should be good guides, parents should start from themselves, and words and deeds that are not conducive to children must not be revealed in front of them. When educating and criticizing children, parents should agree, not disagree, not right or wrong. Secondly, you should be a nosy parent (of course, this time is not necessarily concentrated, but may also be scattered, such as on the way to pick up the children, or before and after meals, and so on. ).) Ask her about her performance at school, what are the happy things and unhappy things, and analyze them so that her emotions can be further vented. A good place, you can be happy with her and appreciate it more; The bad places should be corrected in time to find out the crux.

As a parent, I have been guiding and educating my children, and I can't judge teachers by their clothes or their beauty and ugliness. Although Wang can get a good ranking in every exam, it only shows that her mastery of learning knowledge is a little better, that's all. At the same time, we should encourage her to actively participate in some extracurricular activities of the school, such as the speech contest just held and various handwritten newspaper competitions. Sometimes children's homework may need parents' help, so parents should not be too tired at this time. Maybe with a little help, you can open a door to children's wisdom.

I have told my friends more than once that the social competition is so fierce now that the competition among children has started since childhood. They are not only the competition of their own academic achievements, but also the competition of comprehensive quality. It is not only the competition of children themselves, but also the competition of parents now. So the importance of family education to our parents can be imagined. No pains, no gains, and so is the education of children. As parents, it is their responsibility to educate their children well, and good educational methods are constantly being explored. Looking forward to good scientific education methods and growing up with children. Let's all work hard and study together!