Advocating that learning is more important than practice, there is no rhetoric, but there is no practical action. He despised the gentry's greed for pleasure, luxury and corruption, and thought that most dude children were uneducated people.
As for family education, Yan Zhitui thinks it is necessary to teach it as early as possible, even prenatal education, so that people who know etiquette and benevolence can teach it. Yan Zhitui also advocated strict education, combining strictness with kindness closely, which means that doting on children is harmful and not beneficial. In addition, we should also pay attention to the influence of the environment on children.
The Significance of Yan Zhitui s Family Education Thought to Modern Family Education;
1. The positive significance of the thought of combining love with education to modern family education.
Yan Zhitui's thought of "majesty and kindness" has become the principle of modern family education in China, and it is an important subject worthy of study in modern family education in China.
Yan Zhitui advocates the establishment of parents' prestige, which is the principle that "family education needs parents' authority" advocated by modern family education. Modern family education theory puts forward that the authority of parents is an important condition to ensure the effectiveness of family education, and kindness and seriousness are the basic principles of educating children. Pay attention to the degree of strictness and goodness. Children who lack kindness are easy to be cruel, and children who lack seriousness are easy to be indulged.
2. The lack of the thought of combining love with education in the implementation of modern family education.
Nowadays, the only child is the apple of his parents' eye. Parents often try to create a comfortable nest for their children, so that children can eat and wear well, and their own work is also done by parents. These parents regard doting as love, but they don't know that children who grow up in comfortable and comfortable environments often can't stand setbacks and grievances.
On the other hand, strictness is more than doting. Parents should be strict with their children, but also pay attention to strictness and moderation. You can't just beat and scold your children, thinking that as long as you make them afraid, it means that family education is very good. In some family education, parents are strict and relaxed, and one takes care of the other. This will not only offset the influence of education, but also lead to children's confusion and confusion.
3. The separation of family education and school education leads to overindulgence of family education.
The school requires students to take care of themselves and learn to do housework, but parents don't want to make their children tired. Most parents put intellectual education in the first place, asking their children to spend all their time studying, thinking that as long as they study hard, they ignore the education of their children's family work.
In this way, children's school and family have two sides, and their performance at home and school is inconsistent. After a long time, children will be very obedient and arrogant at home. If it continues to develop, students will have problems with their integrity and lie, and the consequences will be very serious.