Wang Chang named his adopted son Wang Chang, a native of the late Han Dynasty. He has integrity and both ability and political integrity. He was once appreciated and recommended by Sima Yi. He attaches great importance to the education of the younger generation. He named his four sons Shen, Shen, Lun and Zhan respectively, and named his nephews Mo and Shen respectively. These names all contain profound, calm and obscure meanings, the purpose of which is to guard against exposing one's sharp edge and prevent being competitive. He often wrote to warn his sons and nephews: "I gave you this name because I want you to always' as the name suggests', strictly control your words and deeds, and never go against my good intentions." You know, in doing anything, haste makes waste, and safety is likely to succeed.
Wang Anshi made a mistake in his attitude towards his son because of connivance and doting, leaving a mirror for future generations.
"Song history according to? 6? 1? 6? 1? 6? 1? 6? 1? 6? 1? 6? 1? 6? 1 The Biography of Wang Anshi records: Wang Kan, the son of Wang Anshi, "A brave man has no scruples. "Very sensitive, not crowned, has written tens of thousands of words. Most importantly, you can't be a small official. " Wang Anshi loves this wayward, aloof, self-reliant and arrogant son. In order to make his son famous as soon as possible and embark on his official career, Wang Anshi used a lot of brains and made great efforts. As the prime minister at that time, Wang directly recommended reuse, which was really inappropriate. So, Wang came to a place with a winding path: he reprinted the notes of the engraved versions of Strategy and Tao Te Ching, and ordered his men to spread them widely and correct their names. Wang also intends to let the emperor know about it. At the same time, the king of Yue also ordered his confidant Deng and others to recommend to the emperor. The emperor was very happy, so he gave Wang Kan the title of "Prince Zhongyun" ...
But who would have expected that Wang Pei died at the age of 33? In order to leave a name for his son after his death, Wang Anshi built a ancestral temple and a meritorious monument for his son, regardless of the basic fact that his life was dull and he did not achieve much. Wang also wrote a poem entitled "The Ancestral Hall of the King", saying: "Gentle people have literary talent, and heaven can't make talents. When the phoenix bird goes, the beam tree urges it. Smoke leaves grass to hate, and wind makes forest sad. It's called a boarding house. It floats alone. "In Wang Anshi's eyes, his son is clearly the first gifted scholar after Confucius, a phoenix bird and a rare pillar of the country! How can such exaggerated flattery not make people laugh? !
As the saying goes, "knowing a son is like a father." What kind of person is Wang Pei? What are his strengths and weaknesses? Wang Anshi should be very clear. However, Wang Anshi indulged his son blindly and even went through the back door to "help" his son pursue fame and fortune. Undoubtedly, Wang abandoned the educational principle of positive guidance and teaching students in accordance with their aptitude, and even ignored the educational principle of having both ability and political integrity. Despite Wang Anshi's painstaking efforts, he never pointed out a correct way of seeking knowledge and being a man, let alone adopted effective educational methods and measures, making Wang Chang a wonder of the world. It can be said with certainty that Wang Anshi's education of his son was a failure.
Wang drowned his son too much and loved him too much, and lost the correct direction of education. Wang Anshi's practice is like a mirror, which deserves every parent's reflection.
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