Example 1: Meng Mu moved three times.

Mencius lived next to the cemetery with his mother when he was a child. Mencius and his neighbor's children learned to bow down and cry like adults and played a funeral game. Mencius' mother looked at it and frowned: "No! I can't let my children live here! " Mencius' mother took Mencius to the market and lived near the place where pigs and sheep were slaughtered. When they arrived at the market, Mencius and the children in the neighborhood learned that businessmen were doing business and slaughtering pigs and sheep. Mencius' mother knew this and frowned: "This place is not suitable for my children to live in!" "So they moved again. This time, they moved near the school. At this time of the first day of the summer calendar every month, officials go to the Confucian Temple, bow down and treat each other with courtesy. Mencius learned to remember after seeing it. Mencius' mother nodded with satisfaction and said, "This is where my son should live!" " "So I live in this place.

Example 2:

A mother took her seven-or eight-year-old daughter to a shopping mall and accidentally picked one up in front of a shopping mall in a city.

A wallet. Meanwhile, the shopkeeper asked loudly, but she pretended not to hear and didn't respond. All the children saw her.

Whispered: "Mom, our teacher said that good people want to pick up money." The mother blushed and her heart beat, throwing the child away.

The son pulled it aside and whispered, "I picked up the wallet, not stole it. I deserve his bad luck!" " "Say that finish, pull the child.

Hurriedly walked into the mall.

Enlightenment: This case tells us that parents should enhance their sense of responsibility and obligation when educating their children. This one in the box

A mother lacks the sense of responsibility and obligation to educate her children, and her behavior will have a bad influence on her children. It's just a wallet

Although it is a small matter, it is a big deal for a child with strong plasticity. The child's mind is a pure land, just like an open space, planted.

You reap what you get. As parents, we should always remember that parents are children's first teachers and children learn.

Learning and educating children is always your responsibility and obligation.

Confucius said: "His body is upright and he goes without orders; His body is not right, although he does not obey. " Makarenko, an educator in the former Soviet Union, also said, "Don't think that education is just talking to children. Give them a lesson and command them. Every memory in your life, even when you are not present, is educating your children.

Teachers have a lofty position in the eyes of students. Teachers' words and deeds are influencing students intentionally or unintentionally. Students are always with teachers, just like their shadows. Teachers' role models are often more effective than words and deeds.