Appreciation education is an education that respects the laws of life. Appreciation education is an education that strives to turn love into concrete and effective words and deeds, so that children can truly feel the love of their parents, fully stimulate their self-confidence, stimulate their inner potential, develop actively and grow happily. Now let's understand what appreciation education is!
What is appreciation education? 1 Appreciation education is one of the most popular educational means today. Parents in place can stimulate children's unlimited potential and fully mobilize their interests and motives. However, if it is not used well or excessively, it is likely to give children an illusion and lead them astray. What is appreciation education? Let's study together.
Appreciation education is not only praise and encouragement as you think, but also the result of appreciating children's behavior, thus strengthening children's behavior and creating an environment to indicate their development direction; Appropriate reminders, enhancing children's psychological experience, correcting children's bad behavior and other educational parts. Before learning about appreciation education, we recommend a short story to you. When Mr. Tao Xingzhi was the principal of Yucai School, one day, he saw a student hitting a classmate with a brick, so he stopped him and ordered him to wait in the principal's office. Mr. Tao returned to the office and found the boys waiting. Mr. Tao took out a piece of candy and handed it to him: "This is a reward for you, because you arrived on time than me." Then he took out a piece of candy and handed it to him: "This is also a reward for you. I won't let you hit your classmates. You stopped it right away, which shows that you respect me. " The boy took the candy doubtfully. Mr. Tao added: "It is understood that you beat your classmate because he bullied girls, which shows that you have a sense of justice." Mr. Tao then took out the third piece of candy for him. At this time, the boy cried: "Principal, I was wrong. If my classmates are wrong again, I can't take this approach. " Mr. Tao took out the fourth candy and said, "You have admitted your mistake. I'll give you another piece and our conversation will be over. "
This story can vividly embody a truth for everyone, that is, when breastfeeding and appreciating, the effect of reprimanding is often more effective, and praise can guide children and often stimulate their beneficial behavior. In the process of praise, the values, right and wrong, beauty and ugliness of educators are invisibly conveyed. Children unconsciously feel the connotation of these views, and will gradually follow these connotations to guide their specific behavior. Appreciation education is such a unique way of education, which is deeply loved by contemporary parents because it advocates an educational concept full of love and human touch. Compared with parents beating and scolding children, appreciation education has brought great comfort to children's hearts. It is not that good children need appreciation, but that appreciation makes them better and better. It's not that bad children need to complain, but that complaining makes bad children worse and worse. Appreciation education is to wake up parents and children, so that children's life state can be stretched!
People on earth are good at living. Appreciation education is not only full of vitality, but also a kind of respect and understanding for your children. If you are a new parent, you might as well stick to appreciation education, which is not only in line with children's psychology, but also convenient for you to better discover their advantages and strengths. Children are happier, and parents can really pass on the educational concept to them and study together.
What is appreciation education 2 I. Definition:
Appreciation education is not praise and encouragement. Strengthening children's behavior is the result of appreciating children's behavior; It is to appreciate children's behavior process to stimulate children's interest and motivation; Create an environment and point out the development direction of children; Appropriate reminders can enhance children's psychological experience and correct their bad behaviors.
Second, the essence:
Appreciation education is the education of life, love and vitality. The most essential need in human nature is the desire for appreciation, respect, understanding and love. As far as spiritual life is concerned, every child comes to this world for appreciation. Appreciation education is characterized by paying attention to children's advantages and strengths, discovering and praising them, gradually forming the trend of starting a prairie fire and awakening children in the mentality of "I am a good boy"; On the contrary, critical education is characterized by paying attention to children's weaknesses and shortcomings-making a mountain out of a molehill and exaggerating infinitely, which makes children give up on themselves and fall into the idea that I am a bad boy. Not only good children should appreciate it, but all children need it. Children are fragile and sensitive. Proper appreciation is a kind of correct love, and it is also an encouragement and appreciation for children!
Third, the method:
Appreciation education summarizes the operating principles of trust, respect, encouragement, understanding, tolerance and reminder and the simple and easy-to-learn operating methods of the three-character classics, so as to grasp the educational law to a theoretical, systematic, operational and characteristic height.
Fourth, the value significance:
From the origin, appreciation education is a kind of life experience; From the perspective of education, it is the inheritance of ideas; From the perspective of educators, it is the return of mentality; From the perspective of the educated, it is the liberation of thought; From the way of thinking, it is the renewal of ideas; In terms of expression, it is a breakthrough in language.