1. Change the way of getting along with children: Parents should try their best to establish an equal relationship with their children, give up their superior position, let their children participate in important family decisions, trust their children's ability to handle things independently, and support their decisions as much as possible. If the child's choice is contrary to the parents' wishes, parents should learn to solve it through communication, instead of blindly suppressing it.
2. Give children more rights: In fact, rebellious children aged 15 want to be respected by the outside world. Parents can give their children the right to choose, the right to speak, the right to manage their time, and the right to privacy to help them gradually transition to maturity.
3. Communicate with children more: When communicating with children, parents should learn to empathize with their children in order to resonate with them and find out the crux of the problem. Parents should keep their emotions stable and avoid being impatient, irritable and not calm when communicating. 15-year-old children will inevitably make mistakes. Parents should not only allow their children to make mistakes, but also guide them to correct them.
Interpersonal skills
1, respect children
Parents should not always stare at their children's weaknesses, and compare their children's weaknesses with other children's strengths. When in contact with children, parents should try their best to find the advantages of children and encourage them to reduce their resistance to parents.
Step 2 be absorbed
Parents also came from the rebellious period of youth, but children are not obvious, so in the face of their inexplicable behavior, we might as well put ourselves in their shoes and think about why children are like this. With empathy, you will understand the child and find the crux of the problem.
3. Avoid talking about grades.
When communicating with children, parents should not always focus on their studies, which will only make their children stressed. When communicating, parents can start with family affairs to stabilize their children's emotions, and then get down to business.
Step 4 stabilize your mood
It is certainly irrational for parents to educate their children with emotions, which will lead to more resistance of children. Therefore, parents should not educate their children when they are impatient, irritable and not calm. When you calm down, you can communicate with your children.
The above contents refer to Baidu Encyclopedia-Rebellious Period.