One: Parents' wrong parenting attitude.

Some parents can't rationally educate their children, spoil and accommodate them too much, have no certain behavioral requirements for their children, and do whatever they want, which encourages their selfish, willful, overbearing and self-control behavior. Some parents don't understand their children's psychological characteristics, interfere and protect them too much, don't understand their curious nature, are afraid of danger, tightly bind their children, and don't give them room for independent activities, which inhibits the development of their willpower. Excessive life care and arranged substitution make children develop a bad personality tendency of being pretentious, proud and stubborn, mentally fragile and unable to stand failure and frustration.

Second, the lack of educational factors for brothers and sisters.

The only child lacks the training and exercise to live with siblings and other children, and does not know how to share and take turns. Parents' love can be said to be completely occupied by the only child, and the toys, snacks or clothes at home are all his own. It is easy to develop withdrawn, self-care and exclusive thoughts and feelings, and his sympathy and sense of responsibility are also weak.

Three: the inconsistency of family education.

The only-child family often has a more serious problem than the non-only-child family, that is, they have different attitudes when they encounter problems. When a child makes a mistake, there will be a "father beating, mother protecting". Grandpa and grandma dozen circle field "phenomenon. It will also cause family disputes because of children's education problems. Generally speaking, only children are more spoiled and indulged by their ancestors than their parents, especially families running in it families are more prone to inconsistent education.

It can be seen that the education of the only child has both favorable and unfavorable conditions. As long as we correctly grasp the educational characteristics and laws of the only child, we can give full play to the favorable conditions and overcome the unfavorable conditions, thus achieving the best educational effect.