After reading The Best Education, have we given our children the best education?
I am a little discouraged, because I have seen many children that I can't accept.
One day, while I was on duty, a girl was fighting with other junior girls, and the headmaster gave it to me. When that girl stood in front of me with her head held high, I said a word and she almost waved her fist. Suddenly found the language pale and powerless? And the futility of education.
One day, a group of students flooded into the office like nobody's business? Call around the phone and let parents receive poverty allowance on time. I think the children's behavior is inappropriate. When I criticized them for not having the most basic manners, I got a lot of supercilious look and dissatisfaction. I feel that basic manners are dying, and the habit of ingratitude has penetrated into the bone marrow.
One day, because of the criticism of the political teacher, I almost cried when I heard a student hit the teacher. I can't imagine how a thin female teacher is exhausted under the fist of a strong boy. The title of "teacher" can't make her fight back, because she is a teacher! Once you strike back, you will probably be distorted by the media or rumors that you will beat and scold students.
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What is the best education?
Trusting teachers is the best education for children.
The girl who didn't listen to the fight, her parents were extremely distrustful of the teacher and said a lot of inappropriate words in front of her children. Students have many misunderstandings about the teacher, which leads to that as long as the teacher punishes and criticizes her, she thinks it is aimed at her, and her resentment against the teacher is getting bigger and bigger, and she is becoming more and more unconvinced.
When children are handed over to teachers for education, we must trust them. This kind of trust is like a joint effort, and we can educate our children together.
There is a phenomenon in society: the schools that everyone yearns for will get better and better, and more and more people will be admitted to schools; The class that squeezes the head and asks grandpa to tell grandma to go in will get better and better, and the children's grades will rise faster. Are those schools more magical than those around them? Are those teachers smarter than other teachers?
Think about the schools and classes you finally got into. What would you say to your children?
Many people will say: son, this school is very good, and the teachers are particularly responsible. Many people want to go in, and it is difficult for them to go in. We finally got in. You must study hard, you will learn something, and let your parents show you face.
Before entering such a school or class, children have already had trust in this class under the influence of their parents. Can children not study hard? Can you learn bad?
This kind of trust is like a huge resultant force, which closely links schools, classes and students, getting better and better!
And those parents who nag about the bad school and teachers in front of their children will find that it seems that the school and teachers are really bad, otherwise how can children often make mistakes?
Is it the school and the teacher?
No, it's parents' distrust of schools and teachers, which makes children lose their great motivation to learn and their due respect for teachers. Anyway, the school and teachers are not so good, so it doesn't matter.
There has been a teacher's painstaking education in vain, the teacher's hard work has been turned a blind eye, the knowledge he has learned has not been learned, there should be no polite behavior at all, and even students have shot at the teacher!
This is no longer a question of parents and students' distrust of teachers, but a bad trend in society and the extreme distrust of teachers in society.
Considering students' mental health, the school changed the big week teaching to small week teaching. A parent called the Education Bureau and immediately changed the small week teaching in the third grade to the big week teaching.
When a student didn't finish his homework for some reason, his parents immediately called the principal and accused the school of assigning too much homework. The headmaster immediately held the teachers accountable at the teachers' meeting.
Before a high school girl took the national physical fitness test, the school asked the students whether they had any diseases and whether they were suitable to take the test. The girl didn't have any disease history, but she died suddenly during the test! Parents immediately took out banners and made a scene in the school until the school paid huge compensation.
Distrust and disrespect for teachers is actually extremely irresponsible for children. In any confrontation that seems to be won by parents and students, losing the future of students is actually a huge price.
If you don't want to destroy children and give them the best education, start by trusting our teachers.