Learning family education

First, how to make children turn negative into product poles

Life can be without many things, but only without hope. For children, we should always encourage them.

Don't let them have negative emotions. Find the internal causes of children's negativity.

1, let children publicly announce their goals.

2. A strong body is the basis for establishing a positive attitude.

3. Good living habits are the magic weapon to keep a positive attitude.

4. Let children develop the habit of reading aloud.

5. Let children develop the good habit of getting to school early.

6. Let children make more positive and optimistic friends.

7. Let children develop the habit of writing big characters.

8. Encourage children to do more new experiments.

9, let children develop a sense of responsibility to do housework.

10, don't always ask yes and no questions.

1 1, cultivate children's positive attitude of inquiry.

12, more praise and less criticism can make children more motivated.

Second, how to cultivate children's self-confidence

The value of life depends on ourselves # Tell the children.

As an independent individual, man is unique and should never be forgotten.

Remember this, let the child know the value of his existence and make him strong.

Be confident and work harder to create your own personality and future.

1, tell the child that he is priceless.

2. Let children do something easy to do.

3. Weaken children's mistakes and highlight their achievements.

4. Pay attention to children's efforts.

5. Praise the child first, and then blame him.

6, strengthen the advantages, so that children keep making progress.

7. Establish children's self-confidence with high goals.

8. Maintain a solid relationship of mutual trust with children.

Parents shouldn't blame each other in front of their children.

10, don't blame the child in front of a third party.

1 1, let children believe in the god of luck at any time.

Will come.

12, let children recall their past achievements and rebuild their confidence.

Third, how to eliminate children's inferiority complex

Eliminating inferiority and cultivating self-confidence are actually two sides of a whole and must complement each other. But the skills of cultivating self-confidence mentioned in the last chapter are aimed at children with defects or poor grades.

It often doesn't work. This chapter can be widely applied to abilities.

Poor kid.

1, be sure to use the statement frequently.

2. Skills should also be taught between mother and child.

3. Use specific reasons to alleviate the embarrassment in your child's heart.

4. Use words to eradicate children's psychological barriers.

5. Let children read biographies of great men in the world.

6. Let children face outstanding peers objectively.

7. Cultivate children's special talents

Fourth, how to turn children's shortcomings into advantages?

Because the mother always reminds to correct the shortcomings, the child is originally.

The body will know itself, but children with high self-demand often do.

Worried about her own shortcomings, my mother scolded her directly and often suffered.

The opposite effect made him even less confident.

1, let children face up to their shortcomings with appropriate methods.

2, distinguish between shortcomings or personality

3. Change the child's position and let him be self-disciplined.

4. I believe that the shortcomings and advantages of children are interchangeable.

5. Use moderate punishment or threat to imply the effect.

6. Hint at your child's shortcomings by talking to yourself.

7. Don't use authority to suppress children's resistance.

8. Encourage children to "bite off more than they can chew".

9. Tell your child that you can do it.

8. Weaken children's inferiority complex by luck.