1, strive to create a warm and harmonious family environment for children, and parents actively cooperate with all sectors of society to guide and drive their children. It should be said that children's growth can still enter the normal track.

2. Keep a low profile. Being aloof is the most irrational way for parents to treat their children, because your aloofness will open the distance from your child's heart, so if you put down your posture and integrate into your child, your child's heart will gradually approach you.

Listen more and talk less, remember to nag. As parents, we should listen to the thoughts of adult children and let them work hard to advance according to their own ideas. Even if they fail, it is an opportunity for growth. Never suppress their ideas. Because they have experienced failures, they can grow rapidly.

4. Give priority to encouragement and guidance. Children's education is a long-term work and requires certain methods. As the saying goes, a key opens a lock. Simple and rude education methods will definitely be detrimental to the healthy growth of children. So parents need to study psychology and pedagogy first. Remember not to beat and scold, the most important thing is to patiently explain to him the impact on the future, such as starting a family, working and living his own problems, and let him realize that this is the best solution.

5. Be more patient. Children at this stage have their own ideas, which often make parents feel anxious. However, some things should not be too harsh on children, but should be tolerant and patient. Parents' words and deeds have a subtle influence on their children.

6. Give children more time and space, communicate with children as much as possible, give children room to vent and express, and don't always focus on academic performance, which will make children under great pressure.

7. Don't hurt your child's self-esteem. The 22-year-old child is exactly the same age as Hua. They got rid of the shackles of minors and finally became adults, so when others treat him as a child, they are eager to get rid of others. At this time, their self-esteem is very strong. Don't hurt their self-esteem when they speak or do things.

8. Let the child experience more social tests and blows, because as an adult, parents can't always educate and teach her. He must have some social experience to grow up slowly.