The consistent thinking is to focus on learning and education. Parents who don't know how to communicate with their children will only nag and educate their children every day.
Actually, not all problems can be solved by nagging. On the contrary, children may develop immunity because of nagging, and it is easy for children to develop the habit of procrastination.
Parents should know that children need more encouragement and understanding. When communicating with children, learning to respect and understand children in simple and clear language will make them more acceptable, which is much more useful than nagging!
2. Always compare with other children, but I don't know that it indirectly hurts children's self-esteem.
Many parents have high expectations for their children, and it is understandable to hope that their children will succeed. But we also need to give children room to develop freely, and we can't always compare them with other children.
Parents always like to compare their children and even show off their strengths. In fact, this practice is very wrong and undesirable, because it not only hinders the growth of children, but also makes children more depressed and disgusted.
If the child is shy and introverted, it will even hurt the child's self-esteem, so what parents need is to give the child positive guidance and encouragement so that the child can grow up healthily.
Parents always command their children, but they don't know what their children need is equality.
Some parents always educate their children in the way they have experienced before. They actively let children do what they think is right, and they explicitly prohibit children from doing and contacting what they think is wrong.
Children have their own thoughts and ideas, and growth needs to be faced by themselves. As parents, we should communicate with our children as friends. On the premise of fully respecting children, it may be a good way of education to actively communicate with children and listen to their thoughts on some things.