One parent wrote in a circle of friends: "The child is not easy to provoke", and another parent ridiculed: "If it is not easy to provoke, it will still provoke." Alas, I don't know who is in charge of parents and children now.
Rebellious children are difficult to manage, but parents are unwilling to quit the stage of educating their children in this way, and they are also worried that their children will go astray and occasionally remind them that they are unhappy.
There are rebellious children at home. Don't worry about these three points. Parent-child communication is more natural 1. Parents can rest assured of what their children say.
If the child explains this matter, parents can solve it themselves, and the child knows it well, so parents can save some thoughts and talk less in front of the child. If they talk too much, children won't listen.
Rebellious children are now gradually mature in thinking, and some are even worse than adults. Shine on you is better than Blue, and they stand higher than their parents, because our generation really needs more books and wider professional knowledge than their parents, and their parents are better than their parents in society.
Give children the right to choose, pay attention to their thoughts, let them be masters of their own affairs through what they can, learn to think about the road of life, and improve their opportunities for tempering.
When children are in adolescence, let them do what they can, and they will be more assertive when they grow up. "Mothers are diligent and children are lazy." If parents do less, children will take more responsibility on their own initiative.
2. Don't worry about your child's privacy.
When children reach puberty, they have some secrets, even notes written with classmates. Parents like to go looking for trouble, know the truth about their children and classmates, and even rummage through the items in the drawer when their children are not at home.
Everyone has personal privacy and some secrets in his heart, and he doesn't like being snooped. When children want to talk, of course, they will take the initiative to talk to you, seek advice and guidance, and don't like being snooped by their parents.
Parents learn to let go of the impulse to control their children. When children grow up, they will become mature people sooner or later. Trust them, but don't let them grow up in a relaxed environment to reduce mental stress.
Don't laugh at this naive idea when children confide in you. Who hasn't walked through these young years from ignorance? Listen patiently, agree, put forward opinions and suggestions without hesitation, and guide children through adolescence objectively.
3. Children can bear psychological pressure.
The child didn't do well in the exam. When parents are more anxious than their children, they ask their children, "Why didn't you do well in the exam this time?" The child is not happy when he hears this. Who doesn't want to do well in the exam? So he replied rudely, "Don't worry, I know what to do."
The child has always had excellent grades and high self-esteem. Failure in an exam doesn't mean everything. I believe that she has the strength and courage to survive this small setback and will try to adjust her mentality, improve her learning methods and catch up.
Parents encourage their children, don't reprimand them, and force them to work hard. Children's learning is not forced, but a spontaneous mentality. It is enough to maintain their motivation to learn actively. This is also the original intention of learning and training.
Children in rebellious period are sensitive, sometimes sensitive, and their mentality is sometimes in irrational differences. Parents should be careful, respect and understand their children, and should not let them obviously feel an uncomfortable control, but should be suitable for a quiet way of getting along.
Give them enough recognition and encouragement, guide their children through adolescence, and excellent parent-child communication can promote students' health and academic development. Children are not depressed and full of vigor, which is what young people should look like and lay a good foundation for a better tomorrow.