But some parents use this expectation wrongly.
Some parents often force their children to do things they don't like every day, making them more and more rebellious.
Therefore, as parents, our best way is not to ask our children to do anything, but to let them find their own direction through scientific and reasonable guidance.
Only when children have made clear their goals, the motivation for progress will become very great, which will also make children better close to success.
Lin Yilun's two sons, a headmaster and a male model, what is the essence of education?
Lin Yilun is the idol of many people. But no one can imagine that he is 50 years old now. He has two grown-up sons.
Moreover, these two sons have performed very well in their respective fields.
For children's education, Lin Yilun is also very attentive. Both my children have their own talents.
Lin Yilun's eldest son did well in his studies. He is the kind of child we call someone else's home. He was admitted to a design school in America.
For Lin Yilun's youngest son, he also started his modeling career.
Today, she has become an internationally renowned male model.
So we say that both children have made great progress in their own fields.
We can say that Lin Yilun's two sons are both excellent and tall, completely inheriting their parents' looks.
Two sons, one is Xueba and the other is a male model.
We say that the children of many stars are also excellent now. At this time, we will think that their family conditions are very good.
Their children are certainly not bad, but it is their wisdom to inherit their parents' real wealth.
"Having money to support" is not just a question of money.
When we saw Lin Yilun's two sons, we couldn't help feeling jealous.
Because these two children are both excellent and have good family conditions.
Parents with different family conditions. They are actually different in the process of educating and raising children.
For these parents, they are more willing to invest their money in the interests of their children.
Many adults will choose jobs that they don't like very much when they are adults.
Therefore, it is not their dream to play around every day.
1, let children have the ability of independent thinking and independent personality rights.
Some parents educate their children completely according to their own ideas. Ask children to listen to themselves in everything.
Then it is easy for children to lack the ability of independent thinking and independent personality. Force children to do things they don't like. In fact, this is not conducive to the growth of children.
2. Improve children's inner cultivation.
Many parents will dress up their children beautifully, which will undoubtedly make them look radiant on the surface.
However, there is a saying that it is very important for a child to satisfy himself with poems and books.
Therefore, we should pay more attention to the cultivation of children's inner cultural self-cultivation in peacetime.
This can truly reflect a person's true value. If children lack inner self-restraint and do some unruly things outside, it will make us lose face as parents.
3. Cultivate children's hobbies
As the saying goes, interest is the best teacher. If a child has no hobbies, his life may be boring.
No matter what the economic situation is, we should let our children have their own hobbies. For example, some children like calligraphy and dance. As parents, we should all support them.
Parents should also pay attention to the development direction of their children. And through timely communication and some correct guidance.
Teaching by example is not as good as teaching by example, and many things on parents will be directly imitated by children. Therefore, as parents, we should always pay attention to our words and deeds.
If parents are self-disciplined, so are our children.
Conclusion:
Each of our children has the right to choose their own direction in life. When children are young, as parents, we can teach them some life truths, but we must not make some decisions for them.
We say that interest is the best teacher.
Through correct guidance, let children have a correct direction and understand what their real dreams are. And fight for this dream.