I think, as parents now, many people are unwilling to accept it.
A mother came home from a busy day's work and found that her child was either doing homework or playing with her mobile phone. She must have collapsed.
It is a mother's most desperate moment to know that her children are mixed with a group of stubborn children, smoking, drinking and playing games, ready to accept mediocrity!
As parents, it is human nature that we want our children to grow up healthy and rich.
Many parents would rather work hard and earn a meager income than be a vulgar man or housewife when their children grow up.
Those "big shots" who can accept their children's mediocrity have enough family background, resources and contacts to make their children rich for life.
The mediocrity in their eyes is often the culmination that ordinary family children have to work hard and struggle.
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Even if children are ordinary, we should cultivate them with our heart.
It doesn't mean that you sign up your child for a dance class and ask her to become a dancer when she grows up. It is a reward to sign up for a painting class and become a painter in the future; Not to mention enrolling in remedial classes, children must be required to be among the best.
Dance can exercise children's physical coordination ability and cultivate their temperament; Painting will make children improve their aesthetic and artistic accomplishment in a subtle way; Targeted counseling can help children improve their short-board subjects and enhance their self-confidence.
Our education for children is to hope that in the future, he will have the right to choose a job, choose a meaningful job and live the life he wants, instead of being forced to make a living.
Now, we try our best to provide the best conditions for children and create a good family environment and educational atmosphere.
Because, I don't want my children to say to me when they grow up: Mom, why didn't you push me when I was a child?
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Two days ago, I saw the name of Chen Huishan, a Hong Kong actor, appear in an English training institution. Parents born in 1970s and 1980s must be familiar with Hua Dan, a former movie master, especially the forensic medical records, which really influenced many girls' career choices on their own. At that time, many girls around me said that they wanted to be a forensic doctor when they grew up.
But later, because of her marriage and her husband's bankruptcy, she quietly switched to the education industry. What many people don't know is that she graduated from the journalism department of Boston University and later finished her master's degree while taking care of her children.
Her successful transformation tells us that a person should read more books, even if he falls in the dust, he must have the courage to get up, because life always has ups and downs, and education and knowledge are the best!
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You may not succeed, but you must work hard enough!
Of course, not all children can get ahead when they grow up. Tsinghua Peking University, with an annual salary of one million, married Bai and reached the peak of her life.
As long as parents care from the heart and have a normal education, every child has the ability to become a positive and optimistic person, and when he grows up, he will have a job he is good at and become an ordinary and happy person.
Some time ago, Zhao, a 90-year-old boy who graduated from university majoring in computer science, chose to be a waiter in a hot pot restaurant. Many people can't understand why he became a waiter after studying in such a good university.
However, he has his own clear plans and goals, 360 lines, and he is the number one scholar. He started as an ordinary waiter and has now become the manager on duty. His next goal is to be a store manager and get a salary of 20 thousand to 30 thousand.
Every industry needs talents, be conscientious in their posts, and pay their own labor seriously is to be worthy of themselves.
Tsinghua's annual salary of one million is good, but after all, it is very few. Being a leader in your own field is also a success, even if you are a chef, waiter or worker. ......
Accept the child's choice, as to whether he is mediocre or not, that is what he has paid behind.
What parents should do is to go all out now, and then let nature take its course and work together to help their children become the best themselves!
Author: small gesture and small taste
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