Case study:
This case belongs to college students' psychological problems. In this case, Xiao Li failed to get his wish when evaluating the scholarship, resulting in a huge psychological gap, and he could not accept this reality. So, my mood changed dramatically, I closed myself up and finally got depression. The main reason is that self-worth has not been well reflected, psychological quality is not strong, and self-denial Generally, such students are depressed and unstable, don't care about people, and have no interest in doing things. After a long time, it is easy to cause psychological and emotional accumulation, which will definitely affect their study and life, and even lead to depression in severe cases. If you don't find a normal channel to vent, you may be addicted to something you think is right, such as the internet. This requires people around you to pay attention to them and give them warmth. College students who have this kind of emotion in their lives should also have heart-to-heart talk and communication with friends around them to release the pressure, so as to relieve these symptoms and return to normal. In view of the problems existing in this case, in addition to creating a good family environment for children, paying attention to the changes of children's behavior at any time and giving correct guidance, schools should do a good job in moral education, pay attention to the cultivation of students' moral character, pay attention to cultivating students' ability to cope with failures and setbacks, enhance students' ability to control emotions, bear setbacks and adapt to the environment, and cultivate students' sound personality.
In this case, we should adopt the following general methods and special methods to implement ideological and political education.
(1) preventive education law
The so-called preventive education method is to educate people in advance to prevent ideological problems and behavioral deviations, or to guide and transform them. Preventive education includes two aspects: first, when bad thoughts and wrong behaviors just appear, take corresponding preventive measures in time to prevent delaying the opportunity; The other is to take effective preventive measures before bad thoughts and wrong behaviors occur to avoid bad thoughts and wrong behaviors and nip them in the bud. Preventive education also has several advantages. First of all, preventive education can enhance the forerunner of ideological and political education. Secondly, preventive education can improve the initiative of ideological and political education. Finally, preventive education can enhance the effectiveness of ideological and political education. In view of Xiao Li's failure to win the scholarship, I think school leaders and teachers should carry out ideological work on all students before evaluating the scholarship to ensure that all students keep a calm attitude towards the evaluation. In addition, teachers and students should also take relevant measures, such as communicating with such students, so that they can gradually get out of the ideological misunderstanding. By doing ideological work for students, the most important thing is to improve their psychological quality.
(2) dredge the law of education
The so-called persuasion education method means being open and honest, brainstorming and letting everyone fully express their views and opinions. Diligence means dredging and guiding, that is, guiding, persuading and educating, and guiding all kinds of thoughts and speeches to a correct and healthy track. To dredge the education law is to understand the people's internal thoughts, not to block the way of speaking, but also to be good at guiding and helping the people to improve their ideological understanding. The specific guidance methods of the education law are divided into guidance, interest guidance and guidance, and the main guidance method in this case is guidance. We should pay attention to two points when using persuasion education: first, we should create democratic conditions to make people dare to tell the truth, allow them to say their wrong ideas, and give timely guidance and education to correct them; Secondly, although persuasion education method is widely used, it is not omnipotent. We must combine theoretical education methods, practical education methods, criticism and self-criticism. The method of persuasion and education is quite helpful for better collecting public opinions and understanding them. As ideological and political educators, before carrying out the evaluation work, we should collect public opinions, that is, students' opinions, and ask students what opinions and suggestions they have on the evaluation work. Ideological and political educators should screen the opinions and suggestions put forward by students according to the actual situation. If there are any mistakes, we should point them out and correct them by combining the relevant methods of ideological and political education theory, and guide them to form a correct ideological understanding. "Thought is the forerunner of behavior". With a correct ideological understanding, Xiao Li would not have gone to the misunderstanding of thought and made such a tragedy!
(C) psychological counseling and psychological crisis intervention
As young people at the critical stage of life, college students are active in thinking, sensitive in feelings, rich in emotions and changeable in behavior. Their world outlook and outlook on life, which are being formed but not yet finalized, are constantly impacted by social changes and social information, making some young people sometimes depressed, sometimes vague, sometimes excited and prone to psychological problems.
1, psychological counseling
The so-called psychological consultation means that educators and educatees understand, communicate and guide each other around psychological problems on the basis of establishing a good relationship, thus eliminating psychological obstacles. Ways to promote physical and mental health.
Using the method of psychological consultation, we should master the following points: first, educators and educatees should establish a good relationship and create a harmonious, relaxed and free-spoken atmosphere. Let the educated vent their depression and inner confusion, reduce their psychological load and master the psychological crux of the educated. Second, by analyzing the causes and process of the formation of psychological barriers, we can inspire the educated to think, stimulate their understanding and promote the mediation and transformation of the psychological conflicts of the educated. Third, we should mobilize the enthusiasm of the educated and establish their determination and confidence to overcome psychological obstacles. Educators are required to fully care for, understand and trust the educated, help establish good interpersonal relationships, and enable the educated to eliminate obstacles and barriers with the interpersonal environment. The formation of this incident is enough to show that Xiao Li has certain psychological problems, introverted personality, inferiority complex, too much pressure, and does not know how to deal with various relationships. Psychological counseling is a very important method to solve ideological problems. Ideological and political educators should establish good relations with students, win their trust and be their most loyal listeners. We must use certain methods to solve students' doubts, create a relaxed environment as much as possible, relieve students' pressure, and finally promote a healthy personality of college students to appear in front of us.
2. Psychological crisis intervention
Crisis intervention is a kind of psychological rescue measure, which is mainly a short-term help process to help people in psychological crisis to get through the crisis in time. Psychological crisis intervention should adhere to the principle of giving priority to education and prevention, and actively carry out effective mental health education, which is the basis of preventing and resolving psychological crisis and an important way of psychological crisis intervention. Psychological crisis intervention is actually similar to psychological counseling, which allows students to grow up slowly by dealing with psychological problems. However, psychological crisis puts more emphasis on remedy. When Xiao Li has psychological problems, the teacher should take appropriate measures to remedy them, so that she can get out of the crisis and become a positive person.
(D) Implicit education methods
The so-called recessive ideological and political education refers to an educational method that uses intangible ideological and political education resources, adopts a more hidden and hidden form, and applies culture, system, management and invisible courses. Educate in a subtle way, so that the educated can be moved, shaken and moved intentionally or unintentionally, and improve their ideological and moral quality.
As for the methods of recessive ideological and political education, here we mainly use infiltration education method, edification education method and practical education experience method. The so-called infiltration education method refers to the method that educators infiltrate educational content into all things and activities that educators may come into contact with, which has a subtle influence on the educated. As we all know, there is a big difference between college and junior high school. Excessive freedom may lead to doing whatever you want, including judging outstanding students, and it will also be limited to your own thinking. Xiao Li's failure to get a scholarship led to the formation of depression, which was also caused by his own thoughts. This requires schools to adopt the method of infiltration education in peacetime, such as inviting more experts to give lectures on related topics. I believe that students' inner horizons will also be broadened, and eventually they will be subtly influenced by certain concepts. This can also effectively curb the formation of students' depression. The so-called edifying education method is to create a healthy, optimistic and progressive cultural atmosphere and educational environment in the process of ideological and political education, and to carry out cultural and artistic activities that people like to see and hear, so that people can receive ideological and political education. The way to cultivate education is to combine education with environment, emotion and fun. Stress is everywhere. Xiao Li's psychological imbalance in scholarship evaluation eventually led to depression, mainly because he was under too much pressure and did not relax himself. Schools should encourage students to take an active part in many literary and artistic activities at the same time. By participating in various activities and communicating with students from different colleges, my mood will still be very comfortable, and I can also see my shining side through activities, and my mentality will suddenly get better. This is an effective way to relieve stress. This will promote the formation of a correct ideological understanding. The method of practical experience education is to organize people to consciously participate in mass spiritual civilization creation activities and community management construction, voluntarily participate in various productive labor and social service activities, enrich practical experience and improve ideological and moral quality. There are similarities between experimental education method and edification education method, both of which are through creating a good environment. The most important purpose is to urge people to improve their ideological and moral quality, and it can also effectively prevent Xiao Li from falling into psychological and ideological crisis.
As future ideological and political educators, we must adapt to the development requirements of the times, comprehensively promote quality education, pay attention to students' all-round development, and actively cultivate students' good character. At the same time, according to the actual situation, we should flexibly use the general methods and special methods of ideological and political education, give full play to our own advantages, mobilize all factors, devote ourselves to cultivating students' healthy and upward character, and minimize the serious psychological problems of college students. Now, as college students, we should also demand ourselves according to this standard, form a healthy psychological quality, solve various problems with reason and stay away from extremes!