Love: a relatively simple emotional relationship between marriage subjects.
Because the marriage relationship is complicated, there are often many contradictions, such as mother-in-law contradiction, mother-in-law contradiction, son-in-law contradiction, social material contradiction and so on. And the resolution of all these complicated contradictions often depends on simple love relationships!
Simplify the complex, showing its subtlety, the so-called commonality from avenue to simplicity.
Sometimes the love that can be produced is not necessarily due to the deep feelings between the subjects, but may be due to the low complexity of the marriage between the subjects, and the results and maintenance are relatively simple.
If the marriage relationship is complicated, it is often a test of love.
When the above viewpoint does not constitute: simple marriage = simple love.
I won't say much, I think everyone should have their own experience.
Talk about a more practical, when the product of marriage (children) was born, many people were worried about children's education.
Nowadays, various unhealthy social phenomena make people realize the importance of children's education, and the future belongs to children.
Children's education should be divided into hard education and soft education.
1 skills education (hard): a child is almost a blank sheet of paper. If he wants to learn skills, he must first open his curiosity. To open his curiosity, he must arouse his interest in this skill.
As for how to make children interested in this thing, it may be partly from nature and partly from the day after tomorrow.
Taking children to "fun" science and technology museums (architecture, physics) and watching an interesting cartoon (animated cartoon) should be an acquired interest-guiding behavior.
Even many primary school teachers don't know how to make students learn and make them interested in your subject. Let's find the starting point here.
As mentioned above, when your child has some hobbies, you may find that your child has a certain talent, if you are careful. Give it a good guide. Maybe the child will be an expert in this field in the future (this may be a derogatory term now).
2 Personality cultivation (moral character): When skills become a guarantee for survival, personality is a very important part of success and happiness in life. How to teach this thing?
This thing depends on raising. (cultivate morality and character)
Most of children's personality development comes from hearing and hearing. Think about who has been with children for a long time, and what they touch will form their character to a great extent.
If this composition contains many bad elements, children will realize that it may cost a lot to get rid of it after they have access to more information. After all, the formation of character comes from habit.
A habit is hard to get rid of and needs more time to cultivate.
Personality also has certain natural components, so we can only try to neutralize some negative energy components and add persuasion.
For example, if the child is in a hurry, you can let him practice calligraphy and painting appropriately.
Of course, there is no absolute good or bad personality, only characteristics and rational use can be useful.
In fact, the education in China has attached great importance to hard education since childhood, and seldom considered soft education. Most happy and successful people in society should be both hard and soft.
I really hope that primary education can be taught better in the future, combining hard and soft. Perhaps it is a selling point to run a kindergarten with the slogan of character development.
In fact, adult education is also applicable. After all, it is never too old to learn.