First, the family gives sincere care.

Many children are timid and don't like to talk because of family factors, because their parents are busy with work and don't have much time to spend with their children, and their children are lonely. What parents should do is to spend more time with their children, explain to them that they are busy with their work, gain their understanding, and tell them to play with them as long as they have time. Parents should keep their promises and don't always let their children down. The happiest thing for children is playing games. Parents may wish to use some games to enhance parent-child relationship, such as drawing together, telling stories, going to the zoo and so on.

Second, establish children's self-confidence.

Timid children need more attention and encouragement. Parents should first accept the child's personality, don't care too much about the child's introversion, be good at discovering the advantages of the child's personality and give the child confidence. They may want to change their minds. Introversion also has many advantages, such as being able to observe and think more calmly, being good at observing other people's minds, not having many friends but being stable, and so on. Pay attention to children's successful experience every time. The more successful experiences, the stronger their self-confidence.

Third, improve children's language ability.

For some children, they are timid and can't express themselves clearly. At this time, parents should patiently guide their children, let them talk more and give them more opportunities for activities.

Fourth, improve children's interpersonal skills.

1. When communicating, look the child in the eye and talk to him. Tell your child that looking into each other's eyes means that you are willing to establish a friendly relationship with him.

2. Cultivate children's social skills. Parents can cordially greet their neighbors, actively participate in various activities in their areas, and set an example for their children to live in harmony with others.

Invite your children's friends and parents to visit you on weekends or on your children's birthdays. At first, let your children contact two or three children. After getting used to it, gradually increase the number of times children play together and tell them, "When no one is playing with you, you can learn to take the initiative to find children to play. Good friends are earned by themselves, not given by others. Mom/dad believes that as long as you look for it, there must be many children who are willing to be good friends with you. "

5. Don't label children.

In family education, parents should not label their children as "dumb, introverted and coward" at will. This will only increase the psychological pressure of children. In fact, children are not as brave as their parents think, but they will become more timid under the labels and accusations of their parents. Therefore, communicate with children with encouraging words as much as possible to enhance their self-confidence.

What is the reason why children are timid and don't like to talk?

First, the parenting style of parents is autocratic.

Parents always impose their wishes on their children in this way, and the strong and authoritarian parenting style will make children shrink back and feel inferior.

Second, the child suffered trauma.

Children in the family, perhaps because of their parents' quarrels or being scolded by their parents, will bring trauma to their children, and children will usually become silent and introverted.

Third, intergenerational support.

Because parents are busy with work, they have to give their children to their elders. Old people don't have much interaction with their children. Such children lack the environment of language interaction. In such an environment for a long time, children will become taciturn.