First, give children some free time to do what they like: we can remind children what to learn or do and what not to learn or do, for example, finding out that children's interests will affect their homework. It is recommended not to block it immediately. It is best to communicate with children more, tell them the advantages and disadvantages of this interest, and then make an agreement with them to leave some time for them to relax properly. Sometimes parents can play games with their children or discuss their idols, so that children can feel that you are from the same country as them and remind them of what they should and should not learn.
Second, communicate with children often: communicate in an appropriate way, but don't always communicate, because children will feel bored. To develop the habit of chatting with children, children's disobedience is always linked to their inner thoughts. If you want to completely correct children's disobedience, you must also understand their hearts, go deep into their hearts, and talk to them with your heart, so as to really influence them and make them consciously change.
Third, parents should encourage their children to have more contact with others: let them have more contact with their peers, occasionally let them invite some children to play at home, and let them be small masters. Usually pay attention to help children make new friends, let him get used to expressing himself in front of outsiders and build up self-confidence.
Fourth, parents should listen to their children's advice: parents should not think that only they are right, and should not let their children do everything according to their parents' ideas. They should listen to their children's suggestions and then combine their own ideas, so that children will not dislike their parents' ideas and do it willingly, instead of forcing them to do it according to their parents' wishes. When children are young, usually only parents are talking and children are listening. After entering middle school, you should try two-way communication and listen to your children's suggestions.
Fifth, parents should not criticize or scold their children blindly: parents should protect their children's self-esteem, not criticize or scold their children directly in front of outsiders, but praise and encourage them more.
Parents should set an example: to educate their children well, we must first start from ourselves. Parents are the best teachers for children. I think parents should always set an example for their children and set an example for them to have a good living environment.