I think my wife dotes on her children because she thinks it's good for them, and her husband thinks his way of educating them is better for them. First of all, he should communicate well with his wife. Take the children around you and other people's children as examples. Like making an appointment with her for a month. As long as the child cries, let her leave the place where she can't hear the child crying, and you have to face all kinds of crying of the child. When she sees the change of the child, she will think that you did the right thing.