The pressure of friends circle, social and cultural environment, children's willfulness and lack of communication in the family all make children easy to become addicted to alcohol and tobacco. Therefore, it is very important to educate children not to smoke or drink.

Parents have a great influence on their children's smoking and drinking. Lucy Posada, a child psychologist, said that if one parent is an alcoholic, their son is 34% likely to be addicted to alcohol. If both parents are alcoholics, the possibility of son's alcoholism addiction will reach 100%. Therefore, it is necessary to educate children in this area at home.

Psychologists believe that adolescence is the period when children are most likely to get this bad habit. This is because adolescent children often have an independent impulse, and they are eager to show their parents and society that they have grown up. Because of their lack of ability to distinguish right from wrong, they are vague about their signs of growing up, so they simply imitate some behavior habits of adults, without distinguishing good habits from bad habits. Smoking and drinking are what they think of as "signs of growing up"

1. Parents should teach students in accordance with their aptitude.

If parents abuse, or even add fists and feet, it will only be counterproductive. Psychological research shows that corporal punishment often fails to educate children, and the cruel key will never unlock children's hearts. In front of children, no matter what your status is, only respecting children and teaching them in accordance with their aptitude will arouse their inner resonance. Let's look at the story of Pele, the king of the ball.

Ball king Bailey had a bad habit of smoking when he was a child. Once, when he was smoking, he happened to be seen by his father. He was so scared that he quickly put the cigarette on the fire. However, his father said to him like an old friend, "You have a little talent for playing football. If smoking harms your health, you can't play football well. " It's up to you If you still want to smoke, you'd better smoke it yourself. It is shameful to always ask others for cigarettes. "He said, and his father handed him some money. Little Bailey was moved and ashamed. Since then, Bailey has galloped on the court for decades and never smoked a cigarette again.

Bailey was born stubborn and stubborn. Because the father knows his son's character like the back of his hand, when he finds out his child's bad habits, he doesn't simply reprimand him, but uses his feelings of loving his son to influence him, touch him and arouse his conscience and self-esteem. Bailey later recalled: "If my father hit me hard, I might resist, and I might become a heavy smoker." It can be seen that corporal punishment and beating and scolding are not the solutions to the problem. Only by grasping the child's heart can we really solve the problem.

It is not enough to hide alcohol and tobacco.

Experts believe that we should pay attention to ways and means in how to educate and guide children not to smoke or drink. It is not enough to hide alcohol and tobacco. Let children know the consequences of smoking, drinking and taking drugs from an early age, and let them see what it will be like for adults to become alcoholics, so as to know that drinking and taking drugs are annoying. Moreover, parents should not wait until their children are drunk or find someone stealing alcohol at home before talking to him about this problem.

Parents should set an example.

If the father is an alcoholic, it is necessary to make it clear to the child:-I have this problem and I am addicted to alcohol, which is very bad. I hope you don't have this problem. "

Experts also pointed out that some children hope to look like adults by smoking and drinking. Parents should pay attention to their children's psychology and analyze the causes of this phenomenon with him. If children are addicted to smoking or drinking, parents should not blame them too much, but work with their children to find out the reasons and solve the problems.

4. Children can be given some independent space appropriately.

Many children learn to smoke and drink out of opposition to their parents. In their view, this is a powerful weapon to challenge the authority of parents. And what should parents do for their children?

The practice of children smoking and drinking is only a superficial phenomenon. The real problem lies in the psychological changes of children. How to guide children's psychology has become a way to prevent children from smoking and drinking. Parents admit that their children have grown up, so they can relax their bondage and give them a little satisfaction, and then talk to their children about the dangers of smoking and drinking equally. I believe that children are easy to accept.

5. Take children to do their favorite sports.

Some parents think that sports activities are just fun and will interfere with their children's sports activities, but this is very unwise. If children find a sense of honor on the court, they will stay away from bad habits such as smoking and drinking. This not only exercises the child's body, but also prevents the child from catching bad habits. Why not? If children get into the bad habit of smoking and drinking, it is easy to get to know the bad guys in society and embark on the road of breaking the law and committing crimes. Parents should persuade and educate their children to realize the dangers of smoking and drinking and overcome these bad habits.