1, affecting children's personality. Many parents choose to beat and scold their children, not to educate them, but to control their emotions when they do something wrong. Simply put, this is a way for parents to vent. However, solving problems in this way will often make children afraid and obedient because of fear, so their courage will become very small, leading to children's weak personality. Of course, in addition to this situation, children may become more unconvinced because of this, and even violent incidents may occur because of this. Therefore, this method of educating children is naturally not worth promoting.
2, leading to a decline in children's creativity. If you look carefully, you will find that those children who are often beaten and scolded often have no more innovative ways to deal with problems. They tend to stick to the rules and their curiosity will drop a lot. Even in the face of challenges, they dare not accept them, because they will worry that the consequences of failure after challenges are beyond their ability to bear.
3. Causes children to lie. After doing something wrong, some children will worry that their parents will be beaten up when they know. Therefore, at this time, they will choose to lie, and the consequences can be imagined.
4. Affect the parent-child relationship. If children are often beaten, they will naturally become more alienated from their parents, and even have the idea that parents don't like themselves, which leads to a gap between parents and children, and there is no way to communicate in time for this reason when encountering problems.
5. Affect children's judgment. Some children may think that their parents educate themselves by beating and cursing, so they may choose a simple and rude way to solve the problem, which may even lead to domestic violence for their children or their families after marriage in the future.