There are some things you can ignore in life, but there are some things you can ignore, and that is love for children.

He is currently the vice president of Beijing International Art School. She told her story.

When my son was young, he worked in the trade union of Beijing No.2 Wool Mill and often had to work overtime at night. In order to be a good wife and mother, the first thing she does after work is to tie an apron and cook in the kitchen.

One day, my 6-year-old son came back from kindergarten, sweating profusely: "Mom, come and see!" " "The son shouted excitedly.

"What are you looking at?" Mother came out laughing and saw her son holding two small hands together and opening them carefully. "This is the money that the old Bazi (the nickname of a boy in kindergarten) gave me! It was given to him by his grandmother! " The son said with surprise that the mother leaned down and looked at it carefully. His son is holding some irregular small pieces of metal.

"This is a ring! Mom, wear a ring, too, so you don't know how to dress yourself up. "

The mother was stunned by the child's words. Look at the "silver" and look at the children. Her eyes are hot. She carefully took the "silver" and carefully collected it.

He Fangyi said emotionally, "Although I didn't make this ring, my son's love has always warmed me."

Ren, a university lecturer, also talked about her accident.

"When my son was a child, I took him to my grandmother's house. Because the family is not well off, he is not given pocket money at ordinary times. One day, I took my son back to my grandmother's house and deliberately gave him a few cents to buy something to eat. Unexpectedly, he bought me a ring instead of buying something himself.

"mom. I bought you a present, look, a ring! " The son has a smug face. I got angry when I saw it, pointing at my son and scolding him: "You! What a shame! It's nice to buy such a fake ring! "

"My son was shocked, bowed his head and held the ring tightly in his hand without saying a word. I just want to let you buy your own food. Why did you buy such a fake ring? I only feel bad about that few cents, but I didn't expect to hurt the child's heart. Later, I remembered that I felt very sorry for my son's heart! "

"Since then, I have paid special attention to protecting children's love." Li Rong went on to say, "When I was in primary school, my son was very explosive and did well in high jump. Once, I took him home by bus. On the way, my son told me mysteriously:' Mom, I won the first place in the high jump, and there are prizes! You see, "he turned to turn over the bag," yo! "Why not?" My son was worried, but he couldn't find it. "

"'Don't worry, mom will look for it with you!' I've been looking for my son for a long time, but I still can't find it. I said to my son calmly,' Son, you won the first prize today. Tell your mother that she is happy and satisfied. It doesn't matter whether there is an award or not! When my son is happy, I feel the joy of sharing success with him. In the future, I care about the little love my son gave me. My son went to middle school and bought me a beautiful hairpin with his 80 pocket money. I used it for several years. I know this is my son's love, and I care very much. "

A small ring may be worthless, but it is a child's love after all! This love is immature. If you care about it, it will grow up. If you ignore it, it will wither; If you hit it, it will die. If you want to have a child who loves you, you must care about it, care for it and nurture it carefully.

Children's love is often manifested in nuances. She may not be as realistic as 100 points or trophies, but she is a monument on the road of life and the most solid harvest after parents' hard work.

However, it is a pity that some parents only know how to love their children, but turn a blind eye to their own love. They care more about their children's scores and rankings. After dinner, the mother washed the dishes in the kitchen, and the child leaned in and said, "Mom, I'll wash it!" " ""Go, go, go to school. You want to be a chef in the future, it's over! "In the evening, when the father was watching TV, the son came out of the room, made a cup of green tea and brought it up." Dad, have tea! The new tea just sent by Third Aunt is delicious! ""who wants you to pour tea, I won't pour it myself? I knew you couldn't sit still in the house and borrowed tea to watch TV. It's unkind of the weasel to pay a New Year call to the chicken! "My son was so wronged that he went back to his home to do his homework in frustration and was no longer in the mood to pour tea for his father.

It is said that children are indifferent now, but have you given him a chance to love you? Parents who are eager for quick success often become indifferent to their children's love inadvertently. Some children's spiritual world goes from love to hate, from desolation to desert, but their parents are completely ignorant. He drugged himself with carefully prepared bitter wine.

Love is a big pocket, full of satisfaction, with a sense of accomplishment and happiness. Give love to children blindly, children feel not sweet and don't know how to cherish it. Once parents learn to accept their children's love and their values are reflected, they will have great happiness!

Accept the love of children! Because it is more blessed to give than to receive!

Article source: Internet BBS