With the progress of the times, more and more families have welcomed two little angels. But how to balance the relationship between the two children and make them grow up harmoniously is a challenge that every parent needs to face.

Avoid contrast

Don't stimulate Dabao with words like "Look how good your brother/sister is". Every child is unique, and comparison will only alienate them.

Private communication

Don't criticize one child in front of another. Protecting their self-esteem is like protecting their young hearts.

Don't treat one as chalk and the other as cheese.

A bowl of water is flat, which is both a responsibility and a manifestation of love. When a conflict occurs, give every child a chance to speak out and deal with it fairly.

Benign competition

The competition in modern society is fierce, but we should educate our children that competition is not the goal, but progress is. On the basis of equality and fairness, encourage children to surpass themselves, not each other.

Tips for family education

Every child is an angel. May they spread their wings and fly in love and understanding.