If a child is a seed, parents are the land. Whether the land is barren or fertile, it is a valuable resource for children! We can look at the newborn babies of mammals. They all need the care of their parents, so do we humans, except that our babies have a longer attachment period and get more care from their parents. It is precisely because children need the care and guidance of their parents that the phrase "it is the father's fault to raise but not teach" comes into being. Because the child is born, parents will always take care of it, but when the child grows up, he needs to learn the skills of survival. If he wants to survive in society, he needs to abide by social rules. So who will teach children this social rule?
The answer is: parents need to teach their children how to obey social rules.
What happens when children don't obey social rules? Just imagine, if you don't obey the traffic rules when crossing the traffic lights, the result will be ... Children's healthy and happy growth cannot be separated from their parents' care and guidance. Similarly, we live in this society, and the environment will also have a certain impact on the growth of children. Meng Mu used to be a neighbor. Mencius' mother moved three times in order to give Mencius a good learning environment. It can be seen that the surrounding environment has a certain influence on children.
"Life is upward", we should also believe that children are working hard and give them opportunities to learn and grow, even if they are not doing well or perfect. It doesn't matter, they will continue to learn from failure and let themselves grow better!