First, let the children obey the rules. In the process of educating their children, many parents only value their children's achievements, give them absolute freedom and give them absolute space. However, if parents let their children grow freely without proper control, it is likely that their children will become unruly. If parents indulge their children blindly and regard their ignorance as nature, there will be a phenomenon that parents tolerate their children's ignorance of right and wrong. True freedom is based on rules, so parents must first set rules in front of their children, so that children can be awed, know how to be a man, know manners, and know what to do and what not to do, in order to make their children friendly.
Second, let children learn to be grateful. Every parent loves his children very much. This is a nature, an instinct. Therefore, after the child is born, parents will devote themselves wholeheartedly to the child. Without his own life, the whole person lives for the children. Parents always educate their children to work hard, make progress and be polite, but they often don't teach them to be grateful. In the eyes of many children, they all feel that their parents should pay for themselves, and they usually lose their temper when things go wrong in life. At this time, parents must let their children learn to be grateful and let them become a caring and just person.
Third, children learn that independence is more important than achievement. Is to let children learn to be independent. Many parents protect their children well, making them lose their independence. When they grow up, they will be very afraid of themselves and unable to live alone. However, it is impossible for parents to accompany their children for life, and it is impossible to protect their children for life. Children will leave their parents and live independently sooner or later. Therefore, parents should usually help their children cultivate independence so that they can face the wind and waves alone.