Middle school students' rebellious psychology, one is emotional confrontation, the other is rejection and resistance. Different from the previous obedience, they like to contradict their parents verbally, unwilling to listen to their parents' advice, unwilling to be bound, disgusted with their parents telling them what to do and keeping up with others. Faced with this situation, it is difficult for parents to accept it, and they especially want to get close to their children and communicate with them, but in the end this way of communication was rejected by the children.

How to educate rebellious children 1, rebellious boys should be "obedient". What is "Shun"? Shun is aimed at the rebellious period. As parents and teachers, if we want to educate them, the method must be obedient, otherwise the more we resist the pressure, the worse the effect will be, and the opposite will happen.

2. Equal role in education-guided dialogue! This rebellious period is actually the germination and establishment of individual self-consciousness, so it needs to be respected and treated equally by others, and it needs to be treated as an adult, which is also the basic bottom line of educational guidance.

3. Try to meet their reasonable requirements and try to be friends! As long as your hobbies and requirements are reasonable, don't deny them and try to satisfy them. But unreasonable guidance. At the same time, everything is related to the role of friends. Only by making friends with them will they trust people, so the effect will be twice as effective!

4. Encourage more enlightenment for children. Every child has self-esteem, and always wants to be the best in the rebellious period when children have stronger self-esteem. Many parents mistakenly think that their children are too serious to compare. Parents should recognize their children more. If a child can be encouraged by a little achievement, then the child will feel valuable, get the attention of others, and he will work harder to do everything.

5. Understand the child's feelings. Don't put children on the opposite side of yourself. Children are not enemies. Learn to look at problems from the standpoint of children and feel their feelings with your heart.

6. Children's emotions will find an outlet. Children will deliberately let some adults do things that are not allowed, but in fact, from the psychological point of view of children, this is to vent bad emotions or uneasy emotions. Parents should look for problems from themselves, think about what they have done to cause their children's dissatisfaction, and try not to reprimand or punish their children when they lose their temper.

7. Give children some autonomy. Since children are rebellious, just like the previous points, more children participate in their parents' "plans" and do not make hard and fast rules on some things, but give them some autonomy conditionally and improve their autonomy more subconsciously.