Our times are different from those of our elders. Due to the limitation of the times, most of them have not received a good general education. Even high-level colleges and universities do not necessarily have the resources and awareness to continue learning. After leaving school, the knowledge system was gradually updated, but it was gradually affected by the abuse of various TV programs and official WeChat accounts. So most of them are old-fashioned, mechanical and personal experiences. Their purpose is not to teach children correct knowledge or information, but to learn or listen to what they have been exposed to before, to conform to their own values, to affirm themselves, and to instill and guide the younger generation.

Some elders are called scholars, and they often quote and publish long speeches in their speeches. They are modest on the surface and advocate a low-key life. In fact, they are high-profile, aloof, laughing and cursing, and despise and laugh at young people for no reason. Most of their generation believe in their position, not knowledge or theory. I am older than you, and I have to go to many places. You should listen to me and do as I say. In fact, this is not education, but control, a way to instill one's own ideas into others, a way to determine the scope of influence. You go my way.

If he doesn't know the specific situation of this person, he will give guidance. If the supervisor misleads others, he will apologize and compensate. Some of them will immediately throw away the cans and get rid of their responsibilities. To tell the truth, many people have seen their elders apologize since childhood. Their parents always say, "Do you want them to bow to you and apologize?" Some people never admit that they are wrong. All elders will protect their authority and dignity. The younger generation has no right to speak at all. In their view, asking the elders to apologize is an aggressive behavior, which is very uneducated. If you go against their intentions, you may not even give them a chance to explain. If you have enough knowledge, you can communicate, but I will listen to anything you say. In the past experience, they will judge right and wrong in their hearts.

In fact, most elders should carry out emotional intelligence education, educate children, respect children, understand their hearts and put forward correct views. Many people say that people's love is given to the next generation by their elders. In fact, the love of adults is selfish, and they don't even know it. We are not rebellious. Our love for our parents is another kind of love we got from our parents when we were young. We love our elders, but we don't want to accept their traditional education.