1. Home-school co-education: On the road of educating children, teachers and parents need to walk hand in hand and give each other full respect and trust. Children who lack family education, like duckweeds without roots, may be buried by waves and sandstorms at any time, while children who lack school education are like flowers that have not been washed and mended by sandstorms. Therefore, the common education of family and school can complete the mission of cultivating children to become talents.

2. Pay attention to communication with children: As parents, we should put down our airs, make friends with children, regard children as independent subjects, and communicate with children as low as possible, using less commanding tone and more negotiating language. Use "we" more than "you should", even if it is criticism, let your child feel your love for him. Because children's hearts are very fragile, if parents often give their children classes, they will inevitably have a sense of fear and disgust. If they dare not approach you, they will often have rebellious psychology. Not only do they not like what you say, but they are afraid to go to school.

3. Learn to let go and give children real love: All love in this world is aimed at aggregation, and only one kind of love is aimed at separation, that is, parents' love for their children. The truly successful love of parents is to let their children get out of your life as soon as possible and become an independent individual. The sooner this separation occurs, the more successful you will be. At home, the father regards the child as a treasure, holding it in his mouth and holding it in his palm for fear of falling. Every day, several people walk around a person, giving the child whatever he wants and doing everything for him, but we often make excuses for ourselves: "As long as you study hard, you don't have to worry about other things." Here, we just ignore an important issue: the ability to live and the ability to learn are equivalent and can promote each other. A person with strong self-care ability is an organized person and a logical person. These qualities are manifested in learning, and their potential is unimaginable. Therefore, our parents should try their best to let go, cultivate children's independence and create environment and conditions for the development of children's independence.