First of all, parents should put down their airs. Don't always feel like an elder. After a lot of things, you know everything. It's wrong to always point at children. That's wrong. Instead, we should look for advantages from children, find advantages, communicate with children equally, inspire him in praise, and let him do something to help him get the joy of success and feel his own strength. So as to build up confidence and run towards the goal.

Secondly, we should discover children's interests. Just don't be interested in children's learning, but pay attention to all kinds of details in their lives. Learn to appreciate your child, even if it is difficult to learn temporarily, as long as you can find the bright spot from him, praise him and encourage him. Children may also gradually shift other interests to study.

Third, learn to wait. Education is a slow job, and it is more important to educate your children well. When children grow up, they need to find their own living space in the family. At this time, parents can't talk too much and worry too much. Otherwise, there may be contradictions and even a cold war. So parents should learn to wait and sit tight.

Fourth, we should learn to be flexible and persistent. That is to say, we should not only adhere to principles, but also pay attention to methods. Without angering children, we should try our best to explain the cause and effect of the problem and the relationship of interests, so that children can think for themselves.

Fifth, fully trust children. Children who fight in adolescence are not bad children. Children will gradually grow up in confrontation, gradually improve their self-awareness and form an independent personality. As parents, as long as they treat rebellion correctly, they can help their children to resolve the risk of adolescence and let them take fewer detours.