Family education and school education are complementary and inseparable, and they should cooperate, closely contact and support each other in order to effectively educate children's growth and success. Family education is not only a powerful assistant and necessary supplement to school education, but also has a restrictive effect on school education. Therefore, in order to give full play to the positive role of family education, it is necessary for school education to guide family education and make it develop in a direction conducive to school education, that is, the consistency between family education and school education, so as to better achieve the purpose of educating children.

Key words: the combination of family education and school education; Restriction; consistent

With the development of education, educating students is not only a matter for schools, but also requires the joint efforts of parents and schools. In order to achieve the expected goal of school education, only by strengthening the contact between family and school, actively striving for parents' understanding, care, cooperation and support, and making the family and school form an educational joint force, can the teaching quality be improved and the educational goal be achieved.

First, why must we combine family education with school education?

1. The combination of family and school education is the need to form a joint force of education and improve the overall efficiency of education.

There is a long process from birth to maturity and success, which includes the common educational responsibility of families and schools. If there is no communication and coordination between family and school education, it will have a negative impact on the normal development and healthy growth of children. It can be seen that successful education is a harmonious education between family education and school education.

From the perspective of children's living space, it is also necessary to realize the combination of family and school education.