One of the benefits of white lies.

In life, in order to achieve a certain goal, sometimes we can't tell the truth, and it is often better to tell a lie. For example, in family life, both husband and wife inevitably have no privacy. If two people expose themselves to each other without reservation, conflicts may occur at any time. Therefore, it is possible for any couple to keep some small secrets and tell a moderate lie when necessary, of course, all white lies (except non-white ones). If anyone in a family has an incurable disease, under normal circumstances, this family member will not easily tell the patient about this bad situation. Because everyone knows that this will increase the burden on patients. Therefore, in the face of patients, it is generally an understatement to say something comforting, telling patients not to worry and have a good rest. This is also a white lie, without any malice. In the process of children's growth, in order to make them better, we will inevitably have some white lies. A good educator must do this sometimes if he wants his students to become talents.

White lies can inspire people to make progress. There was once a mountain village teacher who was very capable of educating students, and most of the students he educated were admitted to universities. This teacher is famous in the local area. Why does this teacher have such great ability? It turns out that he has no ability. He just lied to the students. He lied that he could tell fortune and fortune. So, the students looked at his fortune one by one. He began to talk nonsense: he said that this student will be an official in the future, that student will be rich in the future, and so on. It's so extravagant that all the students itch. Anyway, none of the student life he calculated is bad. At the same time, he guides students to study hard and tells them not to live up to their beautiful life. Students don't know what they will be like in the future, but with such a little encouragement from the teacher, confidence comes one by one. This is exactly what the teacher wanted, so the teacher became famous and even the village became a local story.

Once upon a time, a father and son went mountain climbing. The mountain is very high, and they finally reached the top with great effort. Standing on the top of the high mountain, looking at the distant mountains, all the other mountains look short in the sky. The feeling arises spontaneously. At this time, both father and son were very excited and felt that they were not simple, like immortals, and they were all in the clouds. At this moment, the son suddenly asked his father a question:? Dad, what's on the other side of the mountain? Dad said: It's still a mountain. ? The son asked again:? What about the other side of the mountain? Is there a sea? My son's eyes are full of hope, just like the seeds that have just sprouted in spring. Looking at his son's innocent eyes, the father had to say to his son: Yes. ? The son refused to give up and asked: Haida? Dad said: big, big, big. ? The son asked again:? Is there a boat in the sea? Dad replied. There is a boat, and the boat is also very big, which can take many people! ? Surprise appeared on his son's face, and then he asked, Dad, what is there beyond the mountain in the face of his son's unremitting pursuit? Dad doesn't know how to answer. Yes, what else is on the other side of the mountain? Who knows? However, in the face of his son's curious eyes, dad couldn't bear to hurt his son, so he had to say: there is everything over there, what you think, what you can't think of. ? The child looked at the depths of the clouds, and his eyes showed a kind of curiosity and firmness. He said to his father, Dad, I must go to the other side of the mountain when I grow up. ? Later, my son grew up and became a real adult, becoming the chairman of a city on the other side of the mountain. My son often tells others that I am what I am today because of the time when my father took me to climb the mountain when I was a child.

White lies can also inspire people's fighting spirit, courage and strength to overcome everything. There is a story about a girl who is seriously ill. On a tree outside her room window, almost all the leaves of the tree have fallen off, leaving only one leaf hanging on it, which looks so lonely and shaky. The little girl looked desperately at the last leaf outside the window. She said that when the last leaf fell, her life came to an end. The little girl's neighbor is a painter. Knowing what the little girl said, he drew a tree similar to the little girl's window on a stormy night and hung it in her window. The next day, the little girl woke up and found that the last leaf was still hanging on the tree. She is very happy and thinks she will not die. Gradually, the little girl's illness really recovered.

Although this is a story, there are many such things in life. In ancient China, people hoped that plums could quench their thirst. See Shi Shuo Xin Yu? It is said that one summer, Cao Cao led an army to crusade against Zhang Xiu. The weather is unusually hot, the sun is like fire, and there is not a cloud in the sky. The troops walked on the winding mountain road, and the dense trees and rocks on both sides were browned by the sun, which made people breathless. By noon, the soldiers' clothes were soaked, the marching speed slowed down, and several weak soldiers fainted on the side of the road. Cao Cao was worried that the marching speed was getting slower and slower, and that the fighter plane would be delayed. However, at present, tens of thousands of people can't even drink water. How can we speed up? He immediately called the guide and asked him quietly: Is there a water guide around here who shook his head and said that the spring water is beyond the valley, and there is still a way to go. ? Cao Cao thought for a moment and said, no, time is too late. ? He looked at the forest in front of him, thought for a moment, and said to the guide, stop talking and I'll think of something. ? He knew that even if he ordered the troops to speed up at the moment, it would not help. A brainwave, the solution came. He grabbed the horse's stomach and quickly rushed to the front of the team. He pointed at the front with a whip and said, Soldiers, I know there is a large piece of Merlin in front, and the plums there are big and delicious. Let's hurry around this hill and go to Merlin! ? Hearing this, the soldiers seemed to eat it in their mouths, and their spirits were greatly boosted, and their pace could not help but accelerate a lot.

This is another white lie, and there are countless examples of this. From these examples, we can easily see the functions and effects of some white lies. Therefore, no matter who, in the face of specific things, do not need to be too stubborn. Don't think that lies are malicious and deceptive. If necessary, we really can't live without lies, because white lies are good for us.

The second advantage of white lies

There is a foreign classic mini-novel called Window, which I think most people have read. It says that two terminally ill patients live in the same ward. The ward is very small, with only a small window, and one of the beds is close to the window. Patients get up and sit up twice an hour every day, once in the morning and once in the afternoon. In order to relieve the roommate's boredom, whenever this happens, the patient at the window begins to describe everything he sees outside the window for his roommate. Gradually, these two hours every day have almost become the whole content of his life and that of his patients.

Patients can be well described. He said that this window overlooks a park. There is a lake in the park, and flocks of wild ducks and swans walk on it. Some children in the park are throwing bread to feed these waterfowl, and some are playing with yacht models. The young couple walked arm in arm in the shade of the tree. Flowers are blooming in the park, surrounded by colorful flowers and plants. In the corner of the park, there is also a tennis court, where the game is very exciting. At the end of the park is a row of shops. Behind these shops, people are busy downtown.